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GILLIAN FLYNN First, you drink the beer, obviously, and you think about everything you’ve been through, includin... RACHEL SHARP The food’s very good,” I offer defensively. “It’s not that”—she gazes past my shoulder�... CHARLES STROSS I hate most people. And I don’t want to, it’s an awful way to be. But the human race gives me no... MORRISSEY Yes, yes, I know what you’re thinking! ‘It’s all right for him, he’s an internationally famo... J.K. ROWLING I’m lost. And it’s my own fault. It’s about time I figured out that I can’t ask people to ke... ANNE SEXTON Your vision of where or who you want to be is the greatest asset you have. Without having a goal it�... PAUL ARDEN I'm really busted up over this and I'm very, very sorry to those people in the audience, the... MICHAEL RICHARDS It’s all about ROI and it’s not Return of Ignorance. ROI is not a formula, it’s a responsibili... LILY CHATTERJEE So one time I said to her that she should stop reading it, because it was just depressing, so she wa... M.T. ANDERSON It’s hard not to empathize with the mayor’s anger, given the injustices he’d suffered, but rig... EDWARD L. GLAESER When it’s slow, trade it slow, when it’s quick, trade it quick and when it’s not moving, go to... 50PIPS What is it about the sound of clapping hands? Why does it seem like an ocean of sound, breaking like... MARKUS ZUSAK Sometimes it’s like people are a million times more beautiful to you in your mind. It’s like you... JENNY HAN It’s no big deal. It’s kind of like a tattoo. It won’t hurt, not too much, just a few stitches... NATHAN REESE MAHER When it’s over, I want to say: all my life I was a bride married to amazement. I was a b... MARY OLIVER Silly. Dark isn’t scary. Dark is safe.” “Why?” “I live in the dark all the time... KIERSTEN WHITE Yeah, that’s my experience. Humbling to the point where you have major regrets about some of the s... HENRY ROLLINS Whatever you find to be very difficult for you, believe it that it’s never difficult if you do som... ISRAELMORE AYIVOR It’s not loving a man that makes life harder for gay guys, it’s homophobia. It’s not the color... ASHTON APPLEWHITE The way the snowflakes float like tiny feathers—there’s an elegance to it. I could watch for hou... ALEX Z. MOORES Walter Issacson biographer of Steve Jobs: I remember sitting in his backyard in his garde... WALTER ISAACSON Love isn’t an act, it’s a whole life. It’s staying with [them] now because [they] ... BRIAN MOORE I want to reach over and grab her hand to comfort her. I want to say something reassuring to her. If... COLLEEN HOOVER It’s not about working for money, it’s about having money work for you. STEPHEN RICHARDS People ask me when I start one of these projects, what is your theme? I haven’t the faintest idea.... 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I run my thumb back and forth over a ... SARAH OCKLER It’s all part of the dance, she thought; the dust, her hands, the light that was spiraling around ... CLIVE BARKER It’s not about optimism, pessimism or realism. It’s not about thinking nothing bad will ever hap... BROWNELL LANDRUM It’s okay. It may not seem like it right now, but you are going to be fine. I know it’s scary, b... CONNOR FRANTA It’s really very difficult to understand a woman – actually it’s not she but he who is confuse... AMIT ABRAHAM You see, the best thing about wrong decisions is that they don’t prevent you from making the right... SIOBHAN VIVIAN Life is the muse which perfectly rhymes, Plays with the words and fills empty lines. NINO VARSIMASHVILI Be the girl you want your daughter to be. Be the girl you want your son to date. Be classy, be smart... GERMANY KENT We have archeology on television, and I quite like it; it’s a sort of detective thing, but it’s ... EDDIE IZZARD And then the horror sets in. All that time I wasn’t crazy; I was, in fact, crazy. It’s hopeless.... MARYA HORNBACHER It’s all about self-discipline. Like, self-obsession is connected completely with self-loathing, a... RICHEY EDWARDS There’s always going to be one more thing. Because that’s what infinite feels like. And the diff... B.J. NOVAK For everything in life there is always a beginning and an end. This is the tough part the most diffi... SEVE BALLESTEROS It’s the hard things that break; soft things don’t break. It was an epiphany I had today and I j... C. JOYBELL C. You’re different, and I know that’s probably the most cliché response ever given, but it’s th... CAROLINE GEORGE If you’re a church person and not a Jesus person, my heart hurts for you. It’s like being engage... MATT CHANDLER
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DEBORAH DAY If you put out acceptance and warmth, you tend to attract the same. DEBORAH DAY True beauty radiates not from outer cosmetics, but from the simple joy of making a difference for th... DEBORAH BARNES The traditional writer is a sensitive only child, asthmatic, who sits on the window seat watching th... DEBORAH MOGGACH The Australian film industry is a small industry, so you have to really be flexible within working i... DEBORAH MAILMAN The Australian film industry is a small industry, so you have to really be flexible within working i... DEBORAH MAILMAN I do believe that we baby-boomers are reinventing ageing as we enter it. We're living longer and... DEBORAH MOGGACH Repentance is a sweet solace to conscience as well as the most complete atonement to the Supreme Jud... DEBORAH SAMPSON On the whole, as we readily acquiesce in the acknowledgment that the field and the cabinet are the p... DEBORAH SAMPSON An assumption underlying almost all comments on interruptions is that they are aggressive, but the l... DEBORAH TANNEN Asian cultures... place great value on avoiding open expression of disagreement and conflict because... DEBORAH TANNEN November 11, 1802, I arrived at Judge Patterson's at Lisle. This respectable family treated me w... DEBORAH SAMPSON For many women, and a fair number of men, saying 'I'm sorry' isn't literally an apol... DEBORAH TANNEN If you understand gender differences in what I call 'conversational style', you may not be a... DEBORAH TANNEN Body language is a very powerful tool. We had body language before we had speech, and apparently, 80... DEBORAH BULL Appropriation was the language of my generation in many ways. It came out of Duchamp, Warhol, Johns,... DEBORAH KASS I'm about as straight an arrow as you'll find out there. DEBORAH NORVILLE My interest in the linguistic differences between women and men grew from research I conducted early... DEBORAH TANNEN When I first heard that song, it was a ballad but it had a lot more. It felt like a gospel song when... DEBORAH COX Communication is a continual balancing act, juggling the conflicting needs for intimacy and independ... DEBORAH TANNEN Happy for America, happy for Europe, perhaps for the world when, on the delivery of Cornwallis's... DEBORAH SAMPSON The secret to not being afraid is to understand what scares you DEBORAH WILES There were no vampires of note in Western literature until about the 18th century. But they tell us ... DEBORAH HARKNESS What shall I say further? Shall I not stop short and leave to your imaginations to portray the tragi... DEBORAH SAMPSON I was really bored, pretty antisocial, and not much of a joiner, and people thought that was a probl... DEBORAH ELLIS When the Taliban took over in 1996, the news of their crimes hit the Toronto papers. As a feminist a... DEBORAH ELLIS This idea that we should be best friends with our partner of the opposite gender leads toward tremen... DEBORAH TANNEN Everything we say has metamessages indicating how our words are to be interpreted: Is this a serious... DEBORAH TANNEN When daughters react with annoyance or even anger at the smallest, seemingly innocent remarks, mothe... DEBORAH TANNEN Help me Lord be a Light and not a shadow in the darkness of my fears. DEBORAH BRODIE Not understanding something must not turn us away from God, his ways, or purposes; rather it must be... DEBORAH BRODIE What the edge of Truth cuts, the edge of Grace mends. DEBORAH BRODIE Count the cost of everything. Rather than asking someone, "How much does this cost?" Ask yourse... DEBORAH BRODIE Start today like a new beginning, and not a repeat. DEBORAH BRODIE It was very liberating, living in a foreign country, a place where everything was new and strange - ... DEBORAH MOGGACH He doesn't make it so complicated but just really allows the lyric to come through even though t... DEBORAH COX The death of compromise has become a threat to our nation as we confront crucial issues such as the ... DEBORAH TANNEN There is that idea of seeming crazy when you're seeing spirits or you're seeing dead people,... DEBORAH MAILMAN American popular culture, like individuals in daily life, tends to either romanticize or demonize mo... DEBORAH TANNEN Social issues have been used to distract Americans from their own self interests since Nixon's s... DEBORAH KASS I prefer Princess. I would love to be known as a diva later on in life when I've had far more ex... DEBORAH COX The effect of dominance is not always the result of an intention to dominate. DEBORAH TANNEN In the past, great communicators were great orators, but great communicators today sound conversatio... DEBORAH TANNEN The catheter allows us to bathe the entire abdominal area with a high concentration of chemotherapy ... DEBORAH ARMSTRONG It's the kind of thing you sort of always hope you're going to see. DEBORAH ARMSTRONG It's very good news. A lot of larger institutions have already adopted this approach. At least for t... DEBORAH ARMSTRONG This is a significant improvement in survival for women with this disease, which is most often diagn... DEBORAH ARMSTRONG IP therapy is not a new treatment approach, but it has not been widely accepted as the gold standard... DEBORAH ARMSTRONG We want to make this a model for other communities in the future. DEBORAH ABBOTT The heritage of the state is very agricultural. Re-energizing agriculture is the key to Indiana's ec... DEBORAH ABBOTT The goal is to create a new use for the manure that's surrounding the town ? as a biofuel. DEBORAH ABBOTT