If you aren’t willing
to love her,
do not put dents
on her heart
that will influence
her to believe that
she is hard to love.
That is cruel.

It’s not her shape,
her face, or her hair
that makes her beautiful.
Neither is it the smoothness of her skin,
the boldness when she stands or the
perseverance in her heart.
But the condition of her heart, the
gratitude she lives by and her love for God.

Love her the way you crave to be loved.

When you look at her,
if you do not feel
blessed to have her.
She is not yours to keep.
She is another man’s blessing.

We hide our pain to keep us from getting hurt again. In the process we hurt people who never aimed to hurt us.

Just remember that it's not your responsibility to fix a broken man. It's not worth your time, your effort, your love or your tears. If he's not willing to fix himself for you, there's nothing left to do but walk away and move behind his selfish, immature, and ultimately abusive behavior. Not all men are broken, but you have to believe you deserve better. Expect better and you'll receive better, it's that simple.