If you are really one of us, it won't matter to you that you might fail. And if it does, you are a coward.

You chose us. Now we have to choose you.

What's your name?
Um...
Think about it. You don't get to pick again.
Tris.

But I will find new habits, new thoughts, new rules. I will become something else.

Any idiot can stand in front of a target. It doesn't prove anything except that you're bullying him. Which, as I recall, is a sign of cowardice.

Becoming fearless isn't the point. That's impossible. It's learning how to control your fear, and how to be free from it.