Patti Stanger quote: "If I was in a situation where it wasn't working and I had a choice with another man, I'm gonna assess it like a business deal: who is the better person for me?"

To get rid of depression, I swim with dolphins.
PATTI STANGER

The best part about being a matchmaker is you are getting credits in heaven, as I really believe I w...
PATTI STANGER

I'm a planner, and most networks don't plan. Bravo doesn't plan. Bravo is lucky in a lot...
PATTI STANGER

It's not easy to date when you're hefty. Besides I like feeling thin because it makes me fee...
PATTI STANGER

I dated a guy and he liked me but I didn't like him. I went through his wardrobe and cleaned out...
PATTI STANGER

For the women in California, they're just downtrodden because they're so gorgeous here. Ever...
PATTI STANGER

I always believe a woman should have 5 non-negotiables that she should stick to when attracting a ma...
PATTI STANGER

I really want to adopt a child... I want to be called 'Mom.' It really is the most beautiful...
PATTI STANGER

Taylor Swift dates guys so she can write a breakup song about them. I don't think she's dati...
PATTI STANGER

Gays don't have a lot of testosterone. I'm talking about that they use both sides of their b...
PATTI STANGER

What I do know is that traditional gender roles are very real and flipping the norm is difficult for...
PATTI STANGER

I have a great track record, and I have never been sued. If I can't find someone for someone, I ...
PATTI STANGER

I had to find a diet that would kick me back into dating shape, because I know that I can't date...
PATTI STANGER

As long as women are in the work force making their own money and decisions, men are going to have t...
PATTI STANGER

I think the men in L.A. are very rugged, good-looking. Men in New York look metro with their manis a...
PATTI STANGER

Think back to yourself at age 18. I know I was mighty different than the Patti I am today. As we gro...
PATTI STANGER

The rich are different. Their wants are very high maintenance. They'll pick eye color and hair c...
PATTI STANGER

On both 'The Bachelor' and 'The Bachelorette,' it seems like proposing marriage is e...
PATTI STANGER

I don't hate redheads! The millionaire men - wealthy men - never pick them. Every time I offer t...
PATTI STANGER

When you know what the male species is looking for - 'I'm not into a redhead,' 'I do...
PATTI STANGER

If you're a successful woman, chances are that you spend a ton of time working. You're proba...
PATTI STANGER

Women are smart in business and dumb in love. They won't date outside their zip code, let alone ...
PATTI STANGER

When a man gets cheated on, I'm like, 'Meh, he'll find somebody else.' When a woman ...
PATTI STANGER

A man can be drawn across the room with the simplicity of a smile. That's why your pearly whites...
PATTI STANGER

If you're giving love and not receiving it, you're not in the right relationship. If you'...
PATTI STANGER

I probably should be a little more cautious with how I speak, and I think my delivery needs to be a ...
PATTI STANGER

I state in my book 'Become Your Own Matchmaker,' confidence is the key to any endeavor. Wome...
PATTI STANGER

When you're working with somebody who operates on commissions, you can never be sure you're getting ...
TOBIE STANGER

That is your legacy on this Earth when you leave this Earth: how many hearts you touched.
PATTI DAVIS

You can't change the world; you can't fix the whole environment. But you can recycle. You ca...
PATTI SMITH

In the period where I had to live the life of a citizen - a life where, like everybody else, I did t...
PATTI SMITH

I was a shy kid with a broom handle that I pretended was a microphone.
PATTI LABELLE

The Bible is very resonant. It has everything: creation, betrayal, lust, poetry, prophecy, sacrifice...
PATTI SMITH

I sang 'O Holy Night' with the Vatican orchestra, but also a Blake - a lullaby that William ...
PATTI SMITH

I can't do some of the songs that younger girls like Mary J. Blige and Beyonce are doing. They h...
PATTI LABELLE

Once you're physically capable of winning a gold medal, the rest is ninety percent mental.
PATTI JOHNSON

I learned from him that often contradiction is the clearest way to truth
PATTI SMITH

As I grew up, one of my strongest allies has been my sister.
PATTI SMITH

I knew people were independently publishing, and I buy books on Amazon. I began seriously considerin...
PATTI DAVIS

Laura Bush went on national television during the week of my father's funeral and spoke out agai...
PATTI DAVIS

My father started growing very quiet as Alzheimer's started claiming more of him. The early stag...
PATTI DAVIS

I think I'm constantly in a state of adjustment.
PATTI SMITH

Callista Gingrich has, I suspect, given Newt's advisers a giant headache. She's a constant p...
PATTI DAVIS

It takes strength to make your way through grief, to grab hold of life and let it pull you forward.
PATTI DAVIS

The thing is that any sophistication I have, aesthetically, comes from 'Vogue' and 'Harp...
PATTI SMITH

So if diva means giving your best, then yes, I guess I am a diva.
PATTI LABELLE

I've said this over and over, but I'll say it a million more times - I'm concerned more ...
PATTI SMITH

I am still a very optimistic person. I continue to do work with joy.
PATTI SMITH

No matter what anybody thinks about any of them, every record I've done has been done with the s...
PATTI SMITH

Bringing good news is imparting hope to one's fellow man. The idea of redemption is always good ...
PATTI SMITH

The idea of redemption is always good news, even if it means sacrifice or some difficult times.
PATTI SMITH

Grief starts to become indulgent, and it doesn't serve anyone, and it's painful. But if you ...
PATTI SMITH

For everything bad, there's a million really exciting things, whether it's someone puts out ...
PATTI SMITH

No one ever saw all of him. It took me nearly four decades to allow my father his shadows, his reser...
PATTI DAVIS

Firstly, though we have to clean this blood up off the tiles before it dries. It is far easier to cl...
PATTI ROBERTS

Even if the Bush Administration had flung open the gates to stem-cell research years ago, we would n...
PATTI DAVIS

Christopher Reeve understood that... everything begins with hope. His vision of walking again, his b...
PATTI DAVIS

A lot of children don't have a developed aesthetic. I did. I made early choices in life, even ab...
PATTI SMITH

So if anybody wants to get me something, get me 60 crabs - one for each year. I don't want no di...
PATTI LABELLE

We didn't have the phrase 'style icon' when I was young, but I have to say, I really cop...
PATTI SMITH

You can't carve up the world. It's not a pie.
PATTI SMITH

I often imagine what it would be like if my father were still here to mark his 100th birthday, if Al...
PATTI DAVIS

Women are strong now. Women are dominating the charts, and women are doing it for themselves. We'...
PATTI LABELLE

I think that one of Elvis' charms was that he could sing almost any kind of music. I am sure tha...
PATTI PAGE

Sometimes you're doing really well, then, after three or four years, everything inexplicably cra...
PATTI SMITH

The CIA created, armed and financed the Contras. My father backed them with everything he had. It wa...
PATTI DAVIS

I come from a working-class family, and I've been working since I was 13, from babysitting to bl...
PATTI SMITH

The house I grew up in had large plate-glass windows, which birds frequently crashed into headfirst....
PATTI DAVIS

Decades later I would look into my father's eyes and try to reach past the murkiness of Alzheime...
PATTI DAVIS

Artists, musicians, scientists - if you have any kind of visionary aptitude, it's often somethin...
PATTI SMITH

I'm not saying I wasn't flawed or amateurish. But you can never say I did anything to appeas...
PATTI SMITH

I learned a lot from Arthur Rimbaud. People talk about how he wanted to be a seer and do that throug...
PATTI SMITH

Some of us are born rebellious. Like Jean Genet or Arthur Rimbaud, I roam these mean streets like a ...
PATTI SMITH

When I was younger, I'd go to the Museum of Television and Radio in New York and watch this beau...
PATTI SCIALFA

Puppies, like all babies, grow up fast. Before long, Gracie was no longer barking at her reflection,...
PATTI DAVIS

It's a tender and complicated dance, watching our parents age. We become protective in ways we n...
PATTI DAVIS

I really just wanted to be a writer, but people tell you, 'You should have a backup career,'...
PATTI DAVIS

I come from a real working class background, and I didn't know anyone sophisticated - except I s...
PATTI SMITH

It was always my belief that rock and roll belonged in the hands of the people, not rock stars.
PATTI SMITH

There was such a lack of modern, recognizable role models for a young girl in the 1950s. I mean, ...
PATTI SCIALFA

As far as I'm concerned, being any gender is a drag.
PATTI SMITH

All my kids play guitar, sing, and dabble with writing.
PATTI SCIALFA

The theater is a tough place. It's not cushioned the way it is in film and television.
PATTI LUPONE

All I can tell you really is if you get to the point where someone is telling you that you are not g...
PATTI LABELLE

I don't believe people playing rock n' roll should have crowns. We're not kings and quee...
PATTI SMITH

I know that some people have different personas for the different things they do, and I'm not cr...
PATTI SMITH

After September 11, I got to understand a little bit of his deep love for this country.
PATTI DAVIS

The word diva to me means doing something supernatural with something natural.
PATTI LUPONE

A diva is someone who is a perfectionist, who does her best in her craft.
PATTI LABELLE

I've been shut down, run down, talked about, dogged out, but that never stopped me from the bein...
PATTI LABELLE

I haven't had the most thrilling lifestyle. I was a pretty good dresser, but I would have a pret...
PATTI SMITH

I remember when the Bic pen was controversial. They came from France. They were cheap, and when one ...
PATTI SMITH

People were a little leery when I was doing the press for my last album 'Rumble Doll,' yes. ...
PATTI SCIALFA

From very early on in my childhood - four, five years old - I felt alien to the human race. I felt v...
PATTI SMITH

Truthfully, I don't really think of myself as a photographer. I don't have all the disciplin...
PATTI SMITH

For Christmas every year, my mother used to give me those cheap little diaries that would tell your ...
PATTI SMITH

Throughout my life, I happily deferred to family, companions, children.
PATTI SMITH

I like revisiting my early work, and people like to hear it. I don't make people suffer through ...
PATTI SMITH

I'm a human being, I'm a friend, I'm a mom, I'm a writer, and I'm an artist. I d...
PATTI SMITH

I really do think snacking is the key to dieting. We know if you can steady your blood sugar, then y...
PATTI MILLIGAN

Since I won't get to go into their homes, I really need to see from this journaling what the meal si...
PATTI MILLIGAN

The goal is to get you off soda, off caffeine, and get the kids and all your families involved, too.
PATTI MILLIGAN

The first is to love your liver. Your liver is the big powerhouse to process foods, as well as proce...
PATTI MILLIGAN

In art and dream may you proceed with abandon. In life may you proceed with balance and stealth.
PATTI SMITH

Good news doesn't necessarily have to be a positive thing. Bringing good news is imparting hope ...
PATTI SMITH

The issue of gender was never my biggest concern; my biggest concern was doing good work. When the f...
PATTI SMITH

I don't think public life in and of itself can destroy you. I think it's the way people reac...
PATTI SMITH

Polaroid by its nature makes you frugal. You walk around with maybe two packs of film in your pocket...
PATTI SMITH

New York is a great city. There is no question of that. It's such a diverse city. I've walke...
PATTI SMITH

My mother answers all my fan mail.
PATTI SMITH

Nothing will stifle your human evolution more than fame and fortune.
PATTI SMITH

It's not that I have compromised or anything, but it's always been important to me to take g...
PATTI SMITH

My mission is to stay healthy and productive and serve as a good example.
PATTI SMITH

I like gettin' old.
PATTI SMITH

Texas governor Rick Perry's wife, Anita, has come out slugging in her glittering leopard-print j...
PATTI DAVIS

I work to Glenn Gould in the morning and go to sleep listening to Parsifal.
PATTI SMITH

I can tell it all in song: pathos, gladness, love, joy, unhappiness.
PATTI PAGE

People called me the godmother of punk, but I never name myself anything.
PATTI SMITH

I had a really happy childhood - my siblings were great, my mother was very fanciful, and I loved to...
PATTI SMITH

I did feel funny about being fair and having red hair and freckles. I did not like that because I gr...
PATTI SCIALFA

It's no secret - I love detective fiction. One of the reasons I love being in London is because ...
PATTI SMITH

I was studying Francis of Assisi for quite some time, when Benedict was still the pope. And I was st...
PATTI SMITH

A show is exhausting when it stinks. It's exhausting when you have to work overtime to make some...
PATTI LUPONE

Politics isn't what defines a person, and it shouldn't define a relationship. I made the mis...
PATTI DAVIS

I have a feeling of reverence about my father being in his 80s - a feeling that I want to whisper, t...
PATTI DAVIS

My mother and father had so many ups and downs and stayed with each other and helped each other. My ...
PATTI SMITH

Where does it all lead? What will become of us? These were our young questions, and young answers we...
PATTI SMITH

My parents were very humanistic, but where we lived was not the cultural center of the world. Hardly...
PATTI SMITH

My parents were very well read. They were both New Englanders, not highly educated, but they had a s...
PATTI SMITH

What I say should always be prefaced with this: I'm not really politically articulate. I just tr...
PATTI SMITH

I don't think the area of Jerusalem should be part of a Jewish state; it belongs to all people, ...
PATTI SMITH

If I've learned one thing in life, it's not to be so judgmental of other people.
PATTI SMITH

I love playing the Fillmore. I love the walk from the hotel and climbing up those old, iron stairs t...
PATTI SMITH

It's one thing to show your love for someone when everything is going fine and life is smooth. B...
PATTI DAVIS

In my low periods, I wondered what was the point of creating art. For whom? Are we animating God? Ar...
PATTI SMITH

I think that Stevie Nicks is one of the greats. Steve Nicks and Grace Slick and Janis Joplin have th...
PATTI LUPONE

In 1974, when I started working with the material that became 'Horses,' a lot of our great v...
PATTI SMITH

The cult of celebrity in the '60s and '70s was really more reserved for movie stars or high ...
PATTI SMITH

I didn't know Kurt Cobain or Amy Winehouse, but I was affected by both of their deaths because I...
PATTI SMITH

I think that my father would find it so confusing that people want to imitate him. Not because he di...
PATTI DAVIS

Why can't I write something that would awake the dead? That pursuit is what burns most deeply.
PATTI SMITH

I had this idea that the coolest thing that could happen to you was talking with God. My father was ...
PATTI SMITH

We found consistently less than one microgram of accessible lead in these vinyl lunch boxes. That is...
PATTI DAVIS

[Acknowledging that the death of a former president of Reagan's stature would be] a big unwieldy one...
PATTI DAVIS

My daughter is one of my greatest inspirations. She's an environmentalist, she plays piano, she&...
PATTI SMITH

I am in musical theatre, but it isn't necessarily what I listen to in my leisure time, do you kn...
PATTI LUPONE

We recently did two benefits for a person with a brain tumor and at the first one, he was there. We ...
PATTI BROOKS

Anybody that goes to the theater, I think we're all misfits, so we ended up on stage or in the a...
PATTI LUPONE

The artist seeks contact with his intuitive sense of the gods, but in order to create his work, he c...
PATTI SMITH

I had a handful of records, but when I was 11 years old, I liked Puccini as much as Little Richard. ...
PATTI SMITH

Since childhood, it was my dream to go where all the poets and artists had been. Rimbaud, Artaud, Br...
PATTI SMITH

Well, I'm not one of those people who needs the limelight. If I'm performing, that's wha...
PATTI SMITH

Even as a child, I knew what I didn't want. I didn't want to wear red lipstick.
PATTI SMITH

I was in musical comedy. And I did very well, but the memorization killed me. I'm not good at me...
PATTI SMITH

A well-rounded performer will listen to all kinds of music. I like classical, Middle Eastern, and ro...
PATTI LUPONE

My favorite composers are the ones that tell the story. I love Wagner. I love Mahler. Prokofiev. The...
PATTI LUPONE

I think we have a creative impulse where suffering can magnify our work, but so can joy. You can be ...
PATTI SMITH

Mohammed personally mapped out seven heavens. If he got to seven, you know there's more.
PATTI SMITH

We catered for 3,000 people. Three thousand!
ANGELO PATTI

The business just wasn't big enough for the three of us.
ANGELO PATTI

We made about $12 that day, which was pretty good back then. Harold Curry reached into the cash regi...
ANGELO PATTI

I don't stay in one discipline because it's more lucrative than another. In fact, the most s...
PATTI SMITH

I would rather write or record something great and have it overlooked than do mediocre work and have...
PATTI SMITH

I'm not afraid of terrorism at all. I'm afraid of loss of our freedom, loss of mobility, los...
PATTI SMITH

I didn't love Jim Morrison 'cause he was self-destructive. I loved him because of his work. ...
PATTI SMITH

I came into music because I thought the presentation of poetry wasn't vibrant enough. So I merge...
PATTI SMITH

I admire the kids being able to take this kind of pressure. They work for four years and everything ...
PATTI HOCH

It's nothing short of miraculous.
PATTI HOCH

I'm ecstatic over the two relays, especially the 200 free because that is our shot at state. It's se...
PATTI HOCH

I can't expect 13 girls with nine freshmen to be able to go out there and hold their own. I also don...
PATTI HOCH

For our relays, I was looking at the times they are swimming and comparing them to last year, and I ...
PATTI HOCH

For all my seniors, we've been mainly focusing on how we are going into the sectional. Everybody has...
PATTI HOCH

Oh, he's just trying to get an easier practice.
PATTI HOCH

We have good swimmers, but we go in down nine, eight or seven points before the meet even starts. Th...
PATTI HOCH

I appreciate what those guys are doing out there. I don't know anything about diving because my back...
PATTI HOCH

In America, it stands out, because it's raw, it's big, it's emotional. My face is raw, b...
PATTI LUPONE

Music television is all about the media-oriented version of what it is to be a rock star; it's n...
PATTI SMITH

What I wanted to do in rock 'n roll was merge poetry with sonic scapes, and the two people who h...
PATTI SMITH

Let me say I was trained at Juilliard. I have a very high standard. I expect everybody around me to ...
PATTI LUPONE

To me, Ann Romney sounds like a better candidate than her husband. She put her MS into remission thr...
PATTI DAVIS

Somehow I started introducing writing into my drawings, and after a time, the language took over and...
PATTI SMITH

I have great respect for my parents. I got such beautiful things from both of them. It doesn't m...
PATTI SMITH

Every time your heart is broken, a doorway cracks open to a world full of new beginnings, new opport...
PATTI ROBERTS

What has happened is, not only has CEIFA not really worked as far as the formula goes, but it hasn't...
PATTI PAWLING

Glitter In Their Eyes,
PATTI SMITH

I absolutely remember where I was when I first heard it. It got me through adolescence.
PATTI SMITH

Those who have suffered understand suffering and therefore extend their hand.
PATTI SMITH

It would go back and forth between the two of us and then it would go over here and bang its head on...
PATTI SMITH

Ask Me Anything.
PATTI SMITH

He's so humble, and he is always willing to do whatever you ask him to do.
PATTI SMITH

I don't expect a big crowd. But hopefully if this first meeting is interesting the word will spread.
PATTI SMITH

I have another son that's in Iraq right now. So, it's not all the way over for us. But, if we can ta...
PATTI SMITH

There is a point in the grieving process when you can run away from memories or walk straight toward...
PATTI DAVIS

We used to have to use the senior citizens hall for Christmas concerts.
PATTI BYERS

I have spoken to a friend of mine. Actually, she was my background singer and she lives in New Orlea...
PATTI LABELLE

I think these folks have been very real. When you have a birth of a baby, when you have to travel wi...
PATTI MILLIGAN

The thing is that as you grow through life, the pursuit of art and the pursuit of new ideas, all the...
PATTI SMITH

My mom loved rock n' roll. My father hated it. We couldn't play it when he was around. He li...
PATTI SMITH

Never let go of that fiery sadness called desire.
PATTI SMITH

We found consistently less than one microgram of accessible lead in these vinyl lunch boxes. That is...
PATTI DAVIS

If I was in a situation where it wasn't working and I had a choice with another man, I'm gonna assess it like a business deal: who is the better person for me?

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If I was in a situation where it wasn't working and I had a choice with another man, I'm gonna assess it like a business deal: who is the better person for me?

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