If I had a daughter, here's what I'd tell her: <br /><br />One day, when you've worked hard for what you want, when people see that you are confident and intelligent and that you recognize your own self-worth, when you take care of yourself, support yourself, and stand up for yourself, that is the day that the world will call you "a cruel and selfish bitch." <br /><br />It's a tough title to earn and you should be and proud of it.