Just — just to be clear,†he said. “You want to leave Tonks at her parents’ house and come away with us?â€
“She’ll be perfectly safe there, they’ll look after her,†said Lupin. He spoke with a finality bordering on indifference. “Harry, I’m sure James would have wanted me to stick with you.â€
“Well,†said Harry slowly, “I’m not. I’m pretty sure my father would have wanted to know why you aren’t sticking with your own kid, actually.
— J.K. Rowling
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