I was aware, in those early days of motherhood, that my behaviour was strange to the people who knew me well. It was as though I had been brainwashed, taken over by a cult religion. And yet this cult, motherhood, was not a place where I could actually live. Like any cult, it demanded a complete surrender of identity to belong to it.
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Related We all knew the book well because it's the cult book in Latin America. For me, this was a sacred... WALTER SALLES Space camp was actually, like, the best summer of my life. It was amazing. But I thought I wanted to... GRAHAM MOORE I guess HBO did a giant 'War in the Pacific' mini-series that cost, like, a fortune, and the... ADAM MCKAY Drinking wine was not a snobbism nor a sign of sophistication nor a cult; it was as natural as eatin... ERNEST HEMINGWAY It was more of their quirky show. It was more like a cult show. The ratings weren't really that high... AMY SEDARIS It was a special show that became a cult classic of sorts, and I made a lot of money for it, DON ADAMS I was sort of born into a Subud cult that has ties to Islam and Indonesia and Middle Eastern spiritu... SUFJAN STEVENS I became immersed in the cult of improvisation. I was like one of those athletes trying to get into ... TINA FEY Among other things Jonestown was an example of a definition well known to sociologists of religion: ... THOMAS WOLFE I was skeptical about doing Texas Chainsaw at first because it's such a cult classic. I'd se... JESSICA BIEL A band like the Cult was never, ever destined to be super huge, because it's just never going to be ... BILLY DUFFY Successful cult memes induce intense social interaction behaviour between cult members. This trips t... KEITH HENSON When I was on 'Dallas,' I was known to audiences of the '80s. And then when my sons, who... PATRICK DUFFY And that was it; it was so easy for her. My own memories did not even belong to me. But I knew she w... SARAH DESSEN According to the books of Kings, a bronze serpent called Nehushtan was worshipped at Jerusale... NISSIM AMZALLAG They just expected it to you know... Paul, Steve and I could have hired our own publicist, if we wan... AMY SEDARIS It was just one of those days where even though the swing didn't feel as good as it could have been,... BEN CURTIS It was just one of those days where even though the swing didn't feel as good as it could have been,... BEN CURTIS In the early days of the December that my father was to die, my younger brother brought me the news ... CHRISTOPHER HITCHENS It's a bit odd that nobody seems to be using the correct technical term to describe organized Is... CRAIG BRUCE I was a huge fan of Terri McIntyre - Classy Bitch the BBC3/BBC Scotland sitcom. The first series of ... DAVID HUNTER What I didn't expect was 'VIP' becoming something of a cult and one of my biggest hits. DHANUSH I like being infamous. I think it is safe being a cult. ADAM ANT I was definitely surprised when Talk Radio took off as a play. As a film it has become somewhere bet... ERIC BOGOSIAN Anyways, that very same night there was a fight in the casino on B Deck. Some of the passengers got ... CHRISTINA ENGELA The environment I was raised in, you had to, to survive. MARK WAHLBERG I set out to do a horror film with 'Dog Soldiers,' and what I came out with at the end of th... NEIL MARSHALL Plenty of patrons had asked me strange things, but this was the first who asked me where my car was ... SCOTT DOUGLAS I was struck by an awful thought, the kind that cannot be taken back once it escapes into the open a... JOHN GREEN What’s a cult? It just means not enough people to make a minority. ROBERT ALTMAN What's a cult? It just means not enough people to make a minority. ROBERT ALTMAN I think 'The Lord Of The Rings' is the mother of all cult books, because you can be in that ... MARKUS ZUSAK You know when you read that someone has to leave a show or a tour because they had 'nervous exha... DAVID JOHANSEN Like James Dean, a death of someone so young gave cult status. He was known as the fittest man alive... BRIAN HARRISON It's a princely fight for succession. There are some who suggest it is a cult of personality. Each o... ELAN STEINBERG We learned to take the long view, ... The initial reception to 'Rounders' was mixed ... [but] over t... CHARLES KOPPELMAN Johnny became a star there; he went there as a center fielder and left as a cult hero. He was create... JOE TORRE He's a cult hero over here for doing it. TONY BENNETT I discourage a cult of personality. NEWT GINGRICH What is a cult? It just means not enough people to make a minority. ROBERT ALTMAN It's a bit odd that nobody seems to be using the correct technical term to describe organized Islami... CRAIG BRUCE In the early days I had a very black-and-white view of everything. I think that's kind of natura... CAT STEVENS I had a very loyal cult-like following, I feel. And I don't mean to complain about that. KAREN JOY FOWLER I've become completely well adjusted to being a cult figure. LOU REED I was in something called 'Garth Marenghi's Darkplace' which was a real cult comedy; it&... ALICE LOWE She loved him, even though it was so hard to love anybody else after loving my dad. I think I knew t... MARGARET MCMULLAN This race was just feeling my way through. I'm 39, but I'm not over the hill yet. The one title I di... GAIL DEVERS What I increasingly felt, in marriage and in motherhood, was that to live as a woman and to live as ... RACHEL CUSK When I was 21, I wanted to write like Kafka. But, unfortunately for me, I wrote like a script editor... ZADIE SMITH He bends over to untie his shoes. “So, have you been ostracized from your little crowd of devotees... VERONICA ROTH It is a truism that almost any sect, cult, or religion will legislate its creed into law if it acqui... ROBERT A. HEINLEIN In a place where everyone knew my story, it was nice to know there was a chapter that ONLY I HAD TO ... ALLY CARTER I think people thought I was crazy for leaving Mexico when I had any project I wanted falling at my ... KARLA SOUZA The monster's bride at his door. Magnus could not stop staring. [Jocelyn] was staring too. She seeme... CASSANDRA CLARE The global warming hysterics don't just offer opinions and beliefs about greenhouse gases and th... MIKE GALLAGHER Revolution did not necessarily involve sanguinary strife. It was not a cult of bomb and pistol. They... BHAGAT SINGH 38. “A wet bird never flies at night.” (My grandfather said that to me when I was a child and wa... JAMES C. DOBSON In spite of all the terrible things that happened to me, I did not allow Hitler to make me feel less... JACK MANDELBAUM I was beginning to feel that I had finally found a place to stay, a place that was not so unstable o... VERONICA ROTH I felt as though I was partly unlearning what i had never learned and yet knew so well: I mean, how ... ALBERT CAMUS My first concert - maybe it was 1979 - was a blur. I'm not sure whether it was Blue Oyster Cult/... GREG GUTFELD I hoped to see a lot of people, but I had no idea it was going to look like this. As far as I could ... BOB COLAROSSI A cult is a religion with no political power. THOMAS WOLFE A cult is a religion with no political power TOM WOLFE A cult is a religion with no political power. TOM WOLFE I've been on a team that won the world championship of barbecue. But barbecue's interesting,... NATHAN MYHRVOLD Being on Oprah? You realize that there are a couple of types of audience members. There are like the... GENEVIEVE GORDER I was like a lot of people. After my accident, I needed a safe place to go. I needed to build a litt... DAVID KILEY I had an epiphany a few years ago where I was out at a celebrity party and it suddenly dawned on me ... MOBY I don't think I knew that you could be a novelist. I think a lot of my students are in the same ... RACHEL CUSK Nobody's irreplaceable, including me. I think for too long we've had a cult of personality i... WILLIAM CLAY FORD, JR. In those days I was new to covers; merely felt pleased that a story of mine had been honored. I late... A. E. VAN VOGT I had never heard of Cingular, but they needed people to jump on trampolines. Well, when I was 13, I... NATE TORRENCE Alone had always felt like an actual place to me, as if it weren’t a state of being, but rather a ... CHERYL STRAYED Alone had always felt like an actual place to me, as if it weren't a state of being, but rather a ro... CHERYL STRAYED I knew he had bought the ring but I had no idea he was going to ask me this morning. It was a comple... JULIE WILLIAMS I was born in Fayette County, over in Lexington, Kentucky, but I was raised most of my life in Paint... CHRIS STAPLETON I knew that this sort of love, technically, was just a neurotransmitter cocktail designed to make yo... CATHERINE LACEY I think what was great with the Cult was that we were allowed to evolve. We made different types of ... BILLY DUFFY Years ago I had realized I was blaming myself for it. People and doctors would tell me it wasn't my ... ROBERT ANTHONY I lay there with my mind running amuck, on the brink of madness. And somehow, gradually, early Sunda... JOHN MARSDEN I wouldn't say it was a slump. It just was not a good period. I knew I could still do this. It was j... BOBBY PERRY I felt like it was my time to go, even though I was extremely upset that I had lost this opportunity... JULIE LELAND Plunging in “truths” about God is like walking on the bottom of a sea that is not there, searchi... MARIANA FULGER I didn't feel as if they always had me [as] part of their plans. It was like I was back on the back ... JUAN DIXON I played extremely well. Actually, it could have been better. I missed a couple of short putts. Over... LISELOTTE NEUMANN Being a rock star is like being a cult leader - you really have to be in your own religion. COURTNEY LOVE I never felt like I had anything really figured out. When I was a teenager, it was all about teenage... KIM GORDON Almost any sect, cult, or religion will legislate its creed into law if it acquires the political po... ROBERT A. HEINLEIN I was inquiring as to a little more detail, and he informed me that he had been told that the presid... QUIN SNYDER A man once asked me ... how I managed in my books to write such natural conversation between men whe... DOROTHY L. SAYERS As a teenager, I used to travel everywhere with my guitar. I appreciated the fact it was with me, bu... GREG WISE But pain may be a gift to us. Remember, after all, that pain is one of the ways we register in memor... SUE MILLER What I wrote... wasn't crazy... or a bullshit... or nonsense... it was what I saw! DEYTH BANGER A good cult delivers on its promises. A good cult nourishes the needs of its members, has transparen... PHILIP ZIMBARDO I was in a zone, and I knew I could get down the field in those last two minutes. I felt like if the... EVAN ROYSTER So this was different. I was amazing now - to them and to myself. It was like I had been born to be ... STEPHENIE MEYER The less reasonable a cult is, the more men seek to establish it by force JEAN-JACQUES ROUSSEAU "Pretending you know what you’re doing is almost the same as knowing what you are doing, so just a... CULT OF DONE On the web the thinking of cults can spread very rapidly and suddenly a cult which was 12 people who... TIM BERNERS-LEE
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RACHEL SKLAR For video clips, you can always assume that there is a creative component since you are literally de... RACHEL SKLAR 'Sesame Street' is awesome - not only because they teach, edify and entertain kids but becau... RACHEL SKLAR There's a tendency, when the offspring of a famous person does something notable, to define them... RACHEL SKLAR Less than two weeks before my 34th birthday, I bought pots. Most people were amazed that I did not p... RACHEL SKLAR My weekends are oases of time and space, where I am able to draw a breath and dive into the stuff I ... RACHEL SKLAR Women as a raw demographic unit exercise incredible power across every element of American life. RACHEL SKLAR I feel lucky every day. But I can also trace that luck back to decisions I have made. Frequently, th... RACHEL SKLAR I am not an 'unplug' person. I like being plugged in. RACHEL SKLAR While I know that Twitter is doing just fine with or without my 140-character contributions, I also ... RACHEL SKLAR Twitter is an amazing public tool with an incredible capacity for public good. RACHEL SKLAR Flying over New Orleans on our approach, I got it. There was no view of land without water - water i... RACHEL SKLAR In 2014, having children is complicated and daunting and fraught - as much as it's always been, ... RACHEL SKLAR When I go a stretch without tweeting, I will occasionally get an email from my mom, checking in. I a... RACHEL SKLAR We live in a world now where everything is tweeted and Instagrammed and tagged and now, God help us,... RACHEL SKLAR I'm Jewish, but not overly religious, and have certainly never formally observed the Fourth Comm... RACHEL SKLAR The best jokes resonate because they uncover ridiculousness in our daily lives, reveal the silliness... RACHEL SKLAR Good advice is just watch what you say on Facebook, on Twitter, on social networks because being sue... RACHEL SKLAR Law school and summer camp are the two experiences that inform pretty much all I do. RACHEL SKLAR I always like to look at things and think, 'Would I be proud to bring my grandma and grandpa to ... RACHEL SKARSTEN Every reality show plot pales in comparison to our history. RACHEL SKARSTEN The special thing about 'Lost Girl' is it can be campy at times, but the show doesn't ta... RACHEL SKARSTEN Normally, learning lines is fairly easy for me, but when you add an accent onto that, it adds a comp... RACHEL SKARSTEN I'm no stranger to joining a show in the third season. I joined 'Lost Girl' at the same ... RACHEL SKARSTEN I've been through periods where I haven't worked and would have paid someone to give me a jo... RACHEL SKARSTEN While I deeply admire actors who deeply prepare, it's just not something I do. RACHEL SKARSTEN There is no such thing as women's intuition. You all just have crap poker faces. RACHEL SHELLEY I do have a fantasy piece of technology that would do my food shopping for me, and if you wanted to,... RACHEL SHELLEY I've always been Mac, so I guess I always will be. I can't imagine I will change now. RACHEL SHELLEY Yes I am definitely an 'Orange is the New Black' fan... Not an obsessive, but a fan none the... RACHEL SHELLEY We constantly abuse and defend a woman's prerogative to change her mind. RACHEL SHELLEY I'm not big on technology; I only get what I need. RACHEL SHELLEY I endeavour to read more, be more informed on gay rights. Whatever floats your boat is my outlook. I... RACHEL SHELLEY