I want to call somebody to get some advice on whether I should answer this question,

I would never offer advice without the person asking for it. I, in general, don't believe in giving advice, actually, as a human being I don't.

I don't give advice. I can't tell anybody what to do. Instead I say, this is what we know about this problem at this time. And here are the consequences of these actions.

New Haven is becoming less and less affordable to live in, and although the city is cleaning up neighborhoods, we are losing a portion of the community in the process,

I believe that all couples should have all the benefits to live wholesome lives.

I'm not going to discuss that, ... I'm not trying to dodge the issue.