I think, you know, it was something that I really wanted. I wanted so much to have a son or daughter. We adopted a son. And it was just the most wonderful thing. I think the only thing that was difficult for both Maury and myself were the sleepless nights.

There were some sleepless nights there.

I have sleepless nights before press days.

led to some sleepless nights.

As a coach at Xavier, you can't think of it in those terms, because you'd just have unnecessary sleepless nights. You only get to play them one time. We're not going to play them for another 300-and-whatever days. You just try to focus on the whole, doing the best you can for the entire season.

I think music is the only thing that I'll ever really have.