Audre Lorde quote: "I remember how being young and black and gay and lonely felt. A lot of it was fine, feeling I had the truth and the light and the key, but a lot of it was purely hell."

You know how fighting fish do it? They blow bubbles and in each one of those bubbles is an egg and t...
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Caring for myself is not self-indulgence, it is self-preservation, and that is an act of political w...
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I was going to die, sooner or later, whether or not I had even spoken myself. My silences had not pr...
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When I dare to be powerful - to use my strength in the service of my vision, then it becomes less an...
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Institutionalized rejection of difference is an absolute necessity in a profit economy which needs o...
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Black and Third World people are expected to educate white people as to our humanity. Women are expe...
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Unless one lives and loves in the trenches, it is difficult to remember that the war against dehuman...
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and when we speak we are afraid
our words will not be heard
nor welcomed
but when we ...
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Institutionalized rejection of difference is an absolute necessity in a profit economy which needs o...
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Those of us who stand outside the circle of this society's definition of acceptable women; those of ...
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. . . [O]nce we begin to feel deeply all the aspects of our lives, we begin to demand from ourselves...
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When I dare to be powerful, to use my strength in the service of my vision, then it becomes less and...
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I am deliberate and afraid of nothing.
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But the true feminist deals out of a lesbian consciousness whether or not she ever sleeps with women...
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I am not free while any woman is unfree, even when her shackles are very different from my own.
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Our feelings are our most genuine paths to knowledge.
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I have a duty to speak the truth as I see it and share not just my triumphs, not just the things tha...
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Revolution is not a onetime event.
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Poetry is not only dream and vision; it is the skeleton architecture of our lives. It lays the found...
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I write for those women who do not speak, for those who do not have a voice because they were so ter...
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Each time you love, love as deeply as if it were forever.
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We have to consciously study how to be tender with each other until it becomes a habit because what ...
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When I use my strength in the service of my vision it makes no difference whether or not I am afraid...
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In discussions around the hiring and firing of Black faculty at universities, the charge is frequent...
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Art is not living. It is the use of living.
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Black writers, of whatever quality, who step outside the pale of what black writers are supposed to ...
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Life is very short and what we have to do must be done in the now.
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The learning process is something you can incite, literally incite, like a riot.
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I have come to believe over and over again that what is most important to me must be spoken, made ve...
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Black women are programmed to define ourselves within this male attention and to compete with each o...
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Your silence will not protect you.
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The master's tools will never dismantle the master's house.
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In our work and in our living, we must recognize that difference is a reason for celebration and gro...
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If I didn't define myself for myself, I would be crunched into other people's fantasies for ...
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There are no new ideas. There are only new ways of making them felt.
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Our visions begin with our desires.
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The sharing of joy, whether physical, emotional, psychic, or intellectual, forms a bridge between th...
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When I dare to be powerful - to use my strength in the service of my vision, then it becomes less an...
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It is not our differences that divide us. It is our inability to recognize, accept, and celebrate th...
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When we speak we are afraid our words will not be heard or welcomed. But when we are silent, we are ...
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The failure of academic feminists to recognize difference as a crucial strength is a failure to reac...
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Only by learning to live in harmony with your contradictions can you keep it all afloat.
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When we create out of our experiences, as feminists of color, women of color, we have to develop tho...
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The sixties were characterized by a heady belief in instantaneous solutions.
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Our feelings are our most genuine paths to knowledge
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When I use my strength in the service of may vision it makes no difference whether or not I am afrai...
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If I didn't define myself for myself, I would be crunched into other people's fantasies for me and e...
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Attend me, hold me in your muscular flowering arms, protect me from throwing any part of myself away...
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There's always someone asking you to underline one piece of yourself - whether it's Black, w...
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The quality of light by which we scrutinize our lives has direct bearing upon the product which we l...
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For the master’s tools will never dismantle the master’s house. They may allow us to temporarily...
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We tend to think of the erotic as an easy, tantalizing sexual arousal. I speak of the erotic as the ...
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The erotic has often been misnamed by men and used against women. It has been made into the confused...
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My silences had not protected me. Your silence will not protect you. But for every real word spoken,...
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Even the smallest victory is never to be taken for granted. Each victory must be applauded...
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Who I am is what fulfills me and what fulfills the vision I have of a world.
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Silence has never brought us anything of worth
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As we come to know, accept, and explore our feelings, they will become sanctuaries and fortresses an...
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I can't really define it in sexual terms alone although our sexuality is so energizing why not e...
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I would like to do another piece of fiction dealing with a number of issues: Lesbian parenting, the ...
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It's a struggle but that's why we exist, so that another generation of Lesbians of color wil...
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There is no thing as a single-issue struggle because we do not live single-issue lives.
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I want to live the rest of my life, however long or short, with as much sweetness as I can decently ...
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Guilt is not a response to anger; it is a response to one’s own actions or lack of action. If it l...
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The master's tools will never dismantle the master's house
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In the interests of separation, Black women have been taught to view each other as always suspect, h...
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It's possible to take that as a personal metaphor and then multiply it to a people, a race, a se...
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I speak here of poetry as a revelatory distillation of experience, not the sterile word play that, t...
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What woman here is so enamored of her own oppression that she cannot see her heelprint upon another ...
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As a Black lesbian mother in an interracial marriage, there was usually some part of me guaranteed t...
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The master's tools will never dismantle the master's house. They may allow us to temporarily beat hi...
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If I participate, knowingly or otherwise, in my sister's oppression and she calls me on it, to answe...
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I find I am constantly being encouraged to pluck out some one aspect of myself and present this as t...
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Tell them about how you're never really a whole person if you remain silent, because there's always ...
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... poetry is not a luxury. It is a vital necessity of our existence. It forms the quality of the li...
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We can sit in our corners mute forever while our sisters and our selves are distorted and destroyed,...
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We can learn to work and speak when we are afraid in the same way we have learned to work and speak ...
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A Litany for Survival

For those of us who live at the shoreline
standing upon...
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In other words, I would be giving in to a myth of sameness which I think can destroy us.
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When you reach out and touch other human beings, it doesn't matter whether you call it therapy or te...
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What better way is there to police the streets of a minority community than to turn one generation a...
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I have died too many deaths that were not mine.
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It has rained for five days
running
the world is
a round puddle
of sunless water...
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I am
the sun and moon and forever hungry
the sharpened edge
where day and night shall...
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The black unicorn was mistaken for a shadow or symbol and taken through a cold country where mist pa...
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young seeds that have not seen sun forget and drown easily.
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I have been woman for a long time beware my smile I am treacherous with old magic
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places do not change so much as what we seek in them
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I am tired of writing memorials to black men
whom I was on the brink of knowing
weary like...
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...may I never lose that terror that keeps me brave
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see me now
your severed daughter
laughing our name into echo
all the world shall reme...
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Anger, used, does not destroy. Hatred does.
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What are the words you do not yet have? What do you need to say? What are the tyrannies you swallow ...
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I get paralyzingly nervous a lot of times, so I tried bravado. The way I dress and carry myself, a l...
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The phrase 'teen hottie' literally makes me want to throw up.
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My name is Ella; that's who I am at school, hanging out with friends, while I'm doing homewo...
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I'm really interested in kind of weird social situations and cliques, watching girls vying for a...
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I am really into how words sound out loud, so I was always the kid who would, like, read the page of...
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I read a lot of short fiction, like Kurt Vonnegut and Raymond Carver and Wells Tower.
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I'm speaking for a bunch of girls when I say that the idea that feminism is completely natural a...
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I'm very conscious of people having pretty short attention spans: I know, I'm guilty of it. ...
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When I was trying to come up with a stage name, I thought 'Lord' was super rad, but really m...
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I've always been fascinated with aristocracy. I'm really interested in the Ivy Leagues, the ...
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Musicians like James Blake were a big influence on me. How he uses his vocals is amazing. And then Y...
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I think young people are the most creative and the coolest - people that we should be learning from....
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I curate my life in a way. It's always playing on my mind, kind of a love-hate relationship. I&#...
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Taylor Swift is so flawless, and so unattainable, and I don't think it's breeding anything g...
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I've been in some situations where people have treated me like a fascinating toy. You know, it&#...
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Grace Jones was an influence, because I was like, 'These shoulders! These pants! Girls can wear ...
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I find a lot of feminist reading quite confusing and that often there's a set of rules, and peop...
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People respond to something which intrigues them instead of something that gives them all the inform...
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I'm a pop princess at heart. Pop is about distilling what you want to say and making it easy. An...
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Obviously I've had this fascination with aristocracy my whole life. Like, the kings and queens o...
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It must have been when I was 14 or 15 that I started tentatively writing songs and was able to conve...
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I'm kind of over getting told to throw my hands up in the air,
So there.
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I actually love Twitter and Instagram. I do think it's so strange to think that 20 years ago, pe...
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In a perfect world, I would never do any interviews, and probably there would be one photo out there...
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With pop music and pop musicians, you know everything about everyone all the time, particularly thei...
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You're the only friend I need
Sharing beds like little kids
And laughing 'til our ribs g...
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I come from a big, loud family, and I'm the quieter one. Performing is something I have to switc...
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I started writing music when I was around twelve. My current record company saw a video of me perfor...
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I try to stay away from talking about boys all the time. You can go to Taylor Swift to hear that.
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I'm a Kiwi. I'm from a beach suburb called Takapuna, which is on the north shore of Auckland...
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My dad is a civil engineer, and my mom is a stay-at-home mom. The fact that my parents weren't r...
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I love thrift shopping. You can get ten things because everything costs, like, three dollars.
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We all have Tumblr, and we all have Instagram and everything. People care so much about it because, ...
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If your dreams don't scare you, they are not big enough.
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I remember how being young and black and gay and lonely felt. A lot of it was fine, feeling I had the truth and the light and the key, but a lot of it was purely hell.

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I remember how being young and black and gay and lonely felt. A lot of it was fine, feeling I had the truth and the light and the key, but a lot of it was purely hell.

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