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Until the legacy of remembered and reenacted trauma is taken seriously, black America cannot heal.
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Many spiritual teachers - in Buddhism, in Islam - have talked about first-hand experience of the wor...
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The feminist call was for women to embrace ways of seeing beauty and adorning ourselves that are hea...
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Significantly, romantic friendships can coexist with the fact of partners' marrying because their re...
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I think the truth is that finding ourselves brings more excitement and well-being than anything roma...
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The practice of love offers no place of safety. We risk loss, hurt, pain. We risk being acted upon b...
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Giving generously in romantic relationships, and in all other bonds, means recognizing when the othe...
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Usually adult males who are unable to make emotional connections with the women they choose to be in...
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Knowing how to be solitary is central to the art of loving. When we can be alone, we can be with oth...
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All too often women believe it is a sign of commitment, an expression of love, to endure unkindness ...
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Life-transforming ideas have always come to me through books.
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Why is it that many contemporary male thinkers, especially men of color, repudiate the imperialist l...
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For me, forgiveness and compassion are always linked: how do we hold people accountable for wrongdoi...
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When we drop fear, we can draw nearer to people, we can draw nearer to the earth, we can draw nearer...
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A major part of love is commitment. If we are committed to someone, if I'm committed to loving y...
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Since anti-racist individuals did not control mass media, the media became the primary tool that wou...
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We judge on the basis of what somebody looks like, skin color, whether we think they're beautifu...
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I have always been a flirt. My mother says whe I was a child, I used to stand outside the house and ...
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I will not have my life narrowed down. I will not bow down to somebody else's whim or to someone...
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It really fascinates me what white people are allowed to write about.
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What had begun as a movement to free all black people from racist oppression became a movement with ...
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I love my family, even as I critique their dysfunctionalities.
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In this culture, the phrase 'black woman' is not synonymous with 'tender,' or 'g...
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Every terrorist regime in the world uses isolation to break people's spirits.
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I don't think you can hate anything that you know intimately. There is no fine line separating l...
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Live simply so that others may simply live.
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But love is really more of an interactive process. It's about what we do not just what we feel. ...
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I think life experiences are different for people who know what they want as children.
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Since loving is about knowing, we have more meaningful love relationships when we know each other an...
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I have been thinking about the notion of perfect love as being without fear, and what that means for...
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Any society based on domination supports and condones violence.
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Once you do away with the idea of people as fixed, static entities, then you see that people can cha...
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If we give our children sound self-love, they will be able to deal with whatever life puts before th...
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The greatest movement for social justice our country has ever known is the civil rights movement and...
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There is no life to be found in violence. Every act of violence brings us closer to death. Whether i...
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Secrets find a way out in sleep . . . It is the place where there is no pretense.
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I believe that this nation can only heal from the wounds of racism if we all begin to love blackness...
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Usually, when people talk about the "strength" of black women . . . . they ignore the reality that t...
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I will not have my life narrowed down. I will not bow down to somebody else's whim or to someone els...
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I often find it easier to be teaching or giving to others, and often struggle with the place of my o...
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I feel like there is always something trying to pull us back into sleep, that there is this sort of ...
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. . .there is an element of Play that is almost ritualistic in Black folk life. It serves to mediate...
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I feel enormously blessed to be a successful black woman writer in this culture, but I have found my...
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I began writing a book on love because I felt that the United States is moving away from love.
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The academy is not paradise. But learning is a place where paradise can be created.
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Often men who have been emotionally neglected and abused as children by dominating mothers bond with...
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An often-repeated assertion in the body of film criticism I have written is the assertion that movie...
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All over the world, young males and females, schooled in the art of patriarchal thinking, are buildi...
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Part of the racialized sexism wants everyone to think that a 15-year old Mexican is not a girl, she�...
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Love is a combination of care, commitment, knowledge, responsibility, respect and trust.
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But many of us seek community solely to escape the fear of being alone. Knowing how to be solitary i...
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But artists aren’t the only marginalized folks controlling real estate. Think about the colonizing...
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When we see love as the will to nurture one's own or another's spiritual growth, revealed through ac...
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Beloved community is formed not by the eradication of difference but by its affirmation, by each of ...
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I want there to be a place in the world where people can engage in one another’s differences in a ...
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These days I wonder more and more why people are pessimistic when American history actually supports...
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Genuine love is rarely an emotional space where needs are instantly gratified. To know love we have ...
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While the patriarchal boys in hip-hop crew may talk about keeping it real, there has been no musical...
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A generous heart is always open, always ready to receive our going and coming. In the midst of such ...
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Even though some individual scholars try to tell us there is no direct connection between images of ...
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I'm so disturbed when my women students behave as though they can only read women, or black stud...
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Contrary to what we may have been taught to think, unnecessary and unchosen suffering wounds us but ...
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The moment we choose to love we begin to move towards freedom...
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To live fixated on the future is to engage in psychological denial. It is a form of psychic violence...
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Some people act as though art that is for a mass audience is not good art, and I think this has been...
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In general, the mass media tell us that black people are not loving, that our lives are so fraught w...
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The political core of any movement for freedom in the society has to have the political imperative t...
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Dominator culture teaches all of us that the core of our identity is defined by the will to dominate...
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Being oppressed means the absence of choices.
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the wounded child inside many males is a boy who, when he first spoke his truths, was silenced by pa...
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I'm such a girl for the living room. I really like to stay in my nest and not move. I travel in ...
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I think the Women's movement has had a major impact on everybody's lives in our nation and i...
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The transformative power of love is not fully embraced in our society because we often wrongly belie...
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To love well is the task in all meaningful relationships, not just romantic bonds.
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One of the most subversive institutions in the United States is the public library..
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Honesty and openness is always the foundation of insightful dialogue.
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Being oppressed means the absence of choices
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To build community requires vigilant awareness of the work we must continually do to undermine all t...
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Whether they regard themselves as pro- or antifeminist, most women want men to do more of the emotio...
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Fame is fun, money is useful, celebrity can be exciting, but finally life is about optimal well-bein...
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Individuals who want to believe that there is no fulfillment in love, that true love does not exist,...
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We fear that evaluating our needs and then carefully choosing partners will reveal that there is no ...
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If you do not know what you feel, then it is difficult to choose love; it is better to fall. Then yo...
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To return to love, to get the love we always wanted but never had, to have the love we want but are ...
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Individual heterosexual women came to the movement from relationships where men were cruel, unkind, ...
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As more people have found the courage to break through shame and speak about woundedness in their li...
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Describing our romantic longings in 'Life preserves,' therapist Harriet Lerner shares that most peop...
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I always tell my students that Malcolm X came both to his spirituality and to his consciousness as a...
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I'm so disturbed when my women students behave as though they can only read women, or black students...
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There must exist a paradigm, a practical model for social change that includes an understanding of w...
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Most men and women born in the fifties or earlier were socialized to believe that marriages and/or c...
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Feminism is the struggle to end sexist oppression. Therefore, it is necessarily a struggle to eradic...
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In a culture which holds the two-parent patriarchal family in higher esteem than any other arrangeme...
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All our silences in the face of racist assault are acts of complicity.
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In the Mars-and-Venus-gendered universe, men want power and women want emotional attachment and conn...
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One of the best guides to how to be self-loving is to give ourselves the love we are often dreaming ...
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The best sex and the most satisfying sex are not the same. I have had great sex with men who were in...
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Erotic attraction often serves as the catalyst for an intimate connection between two people, but it...
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If one assumes, as I do, that battery is caused by the belief permeating this culture that hierarchi...
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If you go door to door in our nation and talk to citizens about domestic violence, almost everyone w...
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..think about the contradictions and complexities that beset people.

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When we understand love as the will to nurture our own and another's spiritual growth, it becomes cl...
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Living simply makes loving simple.
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When we black people commit ourselves to living simply as a political action, as a way of breaking t...
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..the struggle to end sexist oppression that focuses on destroying the cultural basis for such domin...
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There will be no mass-based feminist movement as long as feminist ideas are understood only by a wel...
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It is not surprising that young white males – most between thirty and forty – play major roles i...
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Black males who refuse categorization are rare, for the price of visibility in the contemporary worl...
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...enslaved black males were socialized by white folks to believe that they should endeabor to becom...
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Once upon a time black male “cool” was defined by the ways in which black men confronted hardshi...
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As a black woman interested in feminist movement, I am often asked whether being black is more impor...
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Much popular self-help literature normalizes sexism. Rather than linking habits of being, usually co...
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All relationships have ups and downs. Romantic fantasy often nurtures the belief that difficulties a...
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The institutionalization of Black Studies, Feminist Studies, all of these things, led to a sense tha...
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When we face pain in relationships our first response is often to sever bonds rather than to maintai...
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One of the greatest difficulties the left faces in reaching out to masses of people in America is it...
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When angels speak of love they tell us it is only by loving that we enter an earthly paradise. They ...
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Even in the face of powerful structures of domination, it remains possible for each of us, especiall...
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Privilege is not in and of itself bad; what matters is what we do with privilege. I want to live in ...
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I mostly want to remind her of the recipes of healing, and give her my own made-on-the spot remedy f...
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It is important for this country to make its people so obsessed with their own liberal individualism...
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Black progressives suffered major disillusionment with white progressives when our experiences of wo...
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It seems to me that the binary opposition that is so much embedded in Western thought and language m...
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No other group in America has so had their identity socialized out of existence as have black women....
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My idea of a delicious time is to read a book that is wonderful. But the ruling passion of my life i...
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She wanted me to remember that pleasure is political--for the capacity to relax and play renews the ...
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No black woman writer in this culture can write ‘too much’. Indeed, no woman writer can write �...
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How different things might be if, rather than saying "I think I'm in love," we were saying "I've con...
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We have to constantly critique imperialist white supremacist patriarchal culture because it is norma...
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Emotional neglect lays the groundwork for the emotional numbing that helps boys feel better about be...
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Testimony in new age writing affirms the way in which embracing a love ethic transforms life for the...
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Usually, fundamentalists, be they Christian, Muslim, or any faith, shape and interpret religious tho...
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Individual members of certain churches in black communities should protest when worship services bec...
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The process begins with the individual woman’s acceptance that American women, without exception, ...
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Since men are not equals in white supremacist, capitalist, patriarchal class structure, which men do...
BELL HOOKS A good history covers not only what was done, but the thought that went into the action. You can rea...
BENJAMIN HOOKS We've come a long way, but it's like nibbling at the edge of darkness.
BENJAMIN HOOKS The most enduring contributions made to civilization have not been made by brawn, they have been mad...
BENJAMIN HOOKS Black men who have succeeded have an obligation to serve as role models for young men entrapped by a...
BENJAMIN HOOKS It was a great team effort for the Mustangs. You may get (defensive coordinator) Cornel (Thompson) i...
DAN HOOKS It's really sad - to have young lives taken. It's tragic.
PAULA HOOKS Bentley came in here the very first day and rode across the room, which is unheard of. It usually ta...
BRAD HOOKS I really don't have to teach too much. I teach them how to get on basically, just teaching them the ...
BRAD HOOKS To be behind to Nederland 10-0 and comeback was a great accomplishment. We fought back and toppled a...
DAN HOOKS I think our young linemen are getting better every week. We have a bunch of sophomores and juniors p...
DAN HOOKS Beasley is a great football player. He's intelligent and knows what it takes to win a football game....
DAN HOOKS We have 23 people. Our kids are playing both ways, so it's a battle of the numbers. We're working ha...
DAN HOOKS We want to do whatever we can to help.
DAN HOOKS It was a tremendous win for our kids and it's always a big deal around here when we beat Jasper. The...
DAN HOOKS Yet another week in a 'bulldog pen' for us. What a charming non-district schedule we have, huh. If o...
DAN HOOKS He's a great athlete. I thought his passes sputtered a little bit, but you know, overall he's a diff...
DAN HOOKS It's a really big thing for the players to be honored here tonight. There are no losers out of this....
DAN HOOKS Until you hit 667MHz or 800MHz you don't tend to end up getting a significant performance advantage ...
DOUG HOOKS Until you hit 667MHz or 800MHz, you don't tend to end up getting a significant performance advantage...
DOUG HOOKS Dual and single core (desktop processors) will both be out at the same time.
DOUG HOOKS Nederland is always such a sound and solid football team. Coach Neumann and his group do such a trem...
DAN HOOKS The point-spread, you know, I don't enjoy that, but I thought our kids played really well. In that l...
DAN HOOKS I'm very concerned about the role of one of our city councilman in this process. It's unprecedented ...
CHARLES HOOKS He needs to remember he's always wearing a City Council hat.
CHARLES HOOKS We've been blessed so that we can bless somebody else.
CHARLES HOOKS Black men who have succeeded have an obligation to serve as role models for young men entrapped by ...
BENJAMIN L. HOOKS A good history covers not only what was done, but the thought that went into the action. You can re...
BENJAMIN L. HOOKS The most enduring contributions made to civilization have not been made by brawn, they have been mad...
BENJAMIN L. HOOKS A good history covers not only what was done, but the thought that went into the action. You can rea...
BENJAMIN L. HOOKS We've come a long way, but it's like nibbling at the edge of darkness.
BENJAMIN L. HOOKS Black men who have succeeded have an obligation to serve as role models for young men entrapped by a...
BENJAMIN L. HOOKS Halloween is fun, but it wasn't always my favorite holiday. I think Thanksgiving is my favorite ...
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If I read every comment on my YouTube videos, I'd go crazy with people that are saying negative ...
JOSHUA BELL Typically, a book takes me about a year to write.
TED BELL I like to sit down every day and not know where the book is going. I have no idea where the book is ...
TED BELL I live in Florida, and I live on a small lagoon. I sit and look out at the water all day - that'...
TED BELL I think it takes a lot of desire because I think a lot of people who've never written books don&...
TED BELL

While marriage is historically associated with dire obligation and clipped wings, I've found tha...
LAKE BELL

The only thing I liked about Christmas as a kid was the gifts; otherwise, it just seemed like a stre...
LAKE BELL

I went to drama school in England, and you spend your first year working on the muscles surrounding ...
LAKE BELL

I have a weird obsession with wearing not just fashion sneakers, but actual sneakers that have bounc...
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I feel very lucky that when I'm burnt out of acting, I take to the pen, and I write something I ...
LAKE BELL

'In A World...' changed my life a thousand per cent. I feel thankful that something I believ...
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I lean into all things that are a little off. I will always wear overalls. At this point, I find a w...
LAKE BELL

When you have a little one, you realize that your only mission in life is to protect this helpless, ...
LAKE BELL

There are a lot of funny people and a lot of unfunny people. Some of them are women and some of them...
LAKE BELL

My mom is incredibly stylish, and she gets it from my grandmother. I feel like I can't live up t...
LAKE BELL

There have been times where you do the red carpet in a certain shoe, and you go into the bathroom, y...
LAKE BELL

'Wet Hot American Summer' was sort of lowbrow genius, you know? But smart in its cultish sil...
LAKE BELL

My dad's a Jew, and my mom's a WASP, so that should pretty much say it all. It was a comical...
LAKE BELL

I love fashion. I always have. When I was a kid, I was in almost full-on costumes when I went to sch...
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You have to keep hobbies in L.A. Otherwise, it's sad.
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I like my body, I like to have fun with what I put on, but I also want to remain classic. So I guess...
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At the end of the week, my husband and I do a leftovers dinner, where we have to use whatever's ...
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I'm super and very openly obsessed with voice-over. 'In a World...' was my love letter t...
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I find the female tragedy of insecurity to be hilarious. We get obsessed over issues like the tiny s...
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I have this necklace I always wear. I collect pendants from people I love; my best friends and membe...
LAKE BELL

Having children is not for everyone, but I think it's a beautiful lesson in it not being all abo...
LAKE BELL A lot of the people I'd love to work with, like John Lennon, Elvis Presley, Buddy Holly, aren...
DRAKE BELL I was raised on Elvis Presley and Buddy Holly and discovered the Stray Cats when I was 11 or 12 year...
DRAKE BELL You never know how they're going to play out, but 'Pork and Beans' definitely had the sa...
BRIAN BELL The impulse of the journalist is to be novel, yet to relate his curiosities to the urgencies of the ...
DANIEL BELL But in action, one defies one's character.
DANIEL BELL The intellectual takes as a starting point his self and relates the world to his own sensibilities; ...
DANIEL BELL Europe, in legend, has always been the home of subtle philosophical discussion; America was the land...
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