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I have a duty to speak the truth as I see it and share not just my triumphs, not just the things that felt good, but the pain, the intense, often unmitigated pain. It is important to share how I know survival is survival and not just a walk throught the rain.


Audre Lorde

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For those of us who live at the shoreline
standing upon...
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running
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a round puddle
of sunless water...
AUDRE LORDE I am
the sun and moon and forever hungry
the sharpened edge
where day and night shall...
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AUDRE LORDE young seeds that have not seen sun forget and drown easily.
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So there.
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