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Related My mother arrived in Brussels in 1938 from a small town near Krakow. But strangely enough, in 1942 o... CHANTAL AKERMAN My parents were practicing Jews. My mother grew up in an orthodox synagogue, and after my grandfathe... JUDITH BUTLER Her mother said she was abducted a few days before in Houston, Tex., and that Scout basically got aw... MANON CARRIE I have a friend who is around my age, a little younger, and she's gay and came out to her own co... LAURA INNES I tried to get my mother to move in with me, but she wanted to stay in her own home. When my mother ... CAROL REBELLO I tried to get my mother to move in with me, but she wanted to stay in her own home. When my mother ... CAROL S. REBELLO She may have been only sixteen years old, but there was a new life growing inside of her. She fought... VALENCIYA LYONS Interesting" people were her favorite hobby. She collected them: the type who did gay things late at... ANNA GODBERSEN My mother wasn't controlling at all. She was a stabilizing force who grew up on a farm in Pennsy... CHRISTINE EBERSOLE Thirrin Freer Strong-in-the-Arm Lindenshield carried her names with ease. She was thirteen years old... STUART HILL My mother saw nothing inconsistent in her traditional desire to look after her husband and children ... EZEKIEL EMANUEL My mom is one of my role models in a complicated way. I learned from her how to be a good mom. She w... LESLIE MORGAN STEINER My cousin in Louisiana started a small company with a little savings, renovating houses. A single mo... CAMPBELL BROWN She was fighting for her gay love, fighting for her best friend. [Posey] brings so much, such a big ... CRAIG CHESTER I come from a magnetic field of Catholicism. I was baptised by my mother's family, who were all ... PAWEL PAWLIKOWSKI I am especially grateful for the memory of my grandmother, Maria Petrovna, who was the family's good... ANDREI SAKHAROV I met Gemma, my wife, when she was 12. She had a schoolgirl crush on me and her dad had arranged for... GARY NUMAN [But she was closer to her mother.] I adored my mother. She was very formal and proper, but she was ... JOAN RIVERS Deep down, my mom had long suspected I was gay... Much of her anger and hurt came from her sense of ... CHASTITY BONO Deep down, my mom had long suspected I was gay... Much of her anger and hurt came from her sense of ... CHAZ BONO I know in my mind that she went right up to heaven. I know she forgave her mother. She knows her mot... JENNIFER CZAJKA My mother is a very keen businesswoman. She came to this country from Poland in 1959. Her parents we... LAURA PUCHOWICZ Lucy Mercedes Martinez, my mother, was probably my first mentor. She really tried to take care of me... RICHARD CARMONA My mother was working on her college degree throughout my childhood, and being the youngest in the f... VALORIE CURRY She had a very difficult life. Her mother gave her away when she was little, and the man who took he... BERNARDO BATIZ Her face was sad and lovely with bright things in it, bright eyes and a bright passionate mouth, but... F. SCOTT FITZGERALD I grew up with gang violence. They tried to suck me in, but I wouldn't do it. I kinda got sucked in ... DEMAUNDRAY WOOLRIDGE I have lived with passion and in a hurry, trying to accomplish too many things. I never had time to ... ISABEL ALLENDE My mother got to read the book in print ... before she died and she was pleased with it. KARLA REINHARD My mother was born in Baltimore, and before her marriage, she was an artist and teacher of art. J. ROBERT OPPENHEIMER I was very inspired by my mother. She was a vocal teacher and sang in a band, and my first memories ... DARYL HALL She felt one thousand years old. She also felt like maybe she was a condescending brat. She wanted h... 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My mum was good at that. She was deep... ROBERT WINSTON I skated and rode bikes on ramps, and my mom was always super supportive. She was one of the only di... SPIKE JONZE She sat up, cheeks flushed and golden hair tousled. She was so beautiful that it made my soul ache. ... RICHELLE MEAD I knew she was going to be the starting keeper. But she didn't know this, but I put her in situation... JEFF BARKER When my father died, my mother came back from being Mrs. Birkin to being Judy Campbell. She was a st... JANE BIRKIN My mother was a full-time mother. She didn't have much of her own career, her own life, her own ... ANGELINA JOLIE My wife is a writer. She grew up in Alaska. She told me she was moving to Boulder and that I could c... BRAD FELD I never liked my father. He really was a dullard and misanthrope. My mother and he were married for ... EDMUND WHITE She was incredibly responsible in the workplace, [but] she was incredibly socially immature. Greg [S... LINDA WOJAS She got back the next morning. I should have rode with her. She was in the stall at 2 o'clock. ANDY LEGGIO And the moment she held that diary in her hands, she summoned all her demons at once. The moment she... AKSHAY VASU When I first met Cara, she was twelve and angry at the world. Her parents had split up, her brother ... JODI PICOULT My mother was working on her college degree throughout my childhood, and being the youngest in the f... VALORIE CURRY She is now more than ever a very important, highly visible, very credible leader in the LGBT communi... ETHAN GETO She was inside and rode the storm out in her attic. MIKE CLAUSEN My mom had beautiful clothes. My mom is elegant; my mom is glamorous. But my mom is also really real... TRACEE ELLIS ROSS When my mother got home from work, she would take me to the movies. It was her way of getting out, a... AL PACINO I believe in miracles. At the age of 13, I was on holiday in Moscow with my mother. It was the only ... OLGA KURYLENKO I just took her heart away from her right away. I was doing the feints, trying to get her out of her... JAIME CLAMPITT My mother started out by being a very good girl. She did everything that was expected of her, and it... RUTH REICHL My mother was a phoenix who always expected to rise from the ashes of her latest disaster. She loved... LORNA LUFT For a split second I felt as though she was nobody special in the larger scheme of my life. She was ... MIRANDA JULY When someone dies they can be any age you remember can't they ' she asked. As I tried to think of a ... ROSAMUND LUPTON I never thought I'd be doing poetry books. I never really studied poetry. But the first one I di... CAROLINE KENNEDY My reflections amount to a love story that is mostly made up, from memories that are mostly false, b... OLIVIA SUDJIC At night I told myself a story, wordless, inside my head, one I liked far better than those in my bo... ALICE HOFFMAN I grew up in a suburb of Columbus, Ohio, in the early '90s, and hospitals and doctor's offic... CORY MICHAEL SMITH She (my mother) could still recite them (the poems) in full when she was lying helpless and nearly b... EUDORA WELTY You don't know what it's like to grow up with a mother who never said a positive thing in her life, ... JUNOT DíAZ She will be learning at that age, but if I keep her in my home, she won't be learning anything. It's... MARIA HERNANDEZ Through my investigation I still can't determine who that person was. She was seen with pamphlets in... JOHN EDWARDS Her parents, Austin Taylor and Kathleen Taylor, were big deals in Vancouver - they were civic leader... CHRISTOPHER BUCKLEY My mother was actually born in Ohio but raised in West Virginia where her family had a laundry. She ... LAURENCE YEP You see, my mother was a district nurse until she died when I was 14, and we used to move from time ... PAUL MCCARTNEY Most of me was glad when my mother died. 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LAUREN BACALL My mother has made choices in her life, as we all must, and she is at peace with them. I can see her... ELIZABETH GILBERT She was as one who, in madness, was resolute to throw herself from a precipice, but to whom some rem... ANTHONY TROLLOPE Jasmine felt a sense of power in cooking. It was she who controlled the ingredients, she who control... BRENDA SUTTON ROSE My mum was a wonderful mother. She died, aged 80, of Alzheimer's disease, which was dreadful to ... BONNIE TYLER I can tell you that my sister never expressed fear to me. I talked to her the Sunday before she died... LUHANNA CHESLEY Sissy had two great failings. She was a great lover and a great mother. She had so much of tendernes... BETTY SMITH For the last four years of her life, Mother was in a nursing home called Chateins in St. Louis ... [... WILLIAM S. BURROUGHS I have a memory of my mother kneeling in front of a cabinet in our home, tenderly cradling her weddi... ROMA DOWNEY That night my mother had what she considered a wonderful dream. She dreamed of the country of India,... ALICE SEBOLD Did she say anything before she died?" he asked. "Yes," the surgeon said. "She said, 'Forgive h... SHERMAN ALEXIE It's really sort of morbid, but she said her mother wanted to see me all her life. And when she ... HANK SNOW I thought she was older. She was big for her age. So, I asked her to carry my books. CHARLES MELLOR I was born in Cincinnati, Ohio. My family was not nationally known as being a literary family, thoug... KENNETH KOCH My mother-in-law's so fat that when she passes her handbag from hand to hand she throws it. LES DAWSON My dad was a homicide cop in the gay neighborhood in the city when gay neighborhoods were desperate,... DAN SAVAGE What I remember most about junior homecoming was my date getting sick afterwards. That kinda sucked.... 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If we don't grow, we aren't really living. GAIL SHEEHY Whatever an author puts between the two covers of his book is public property; whatever of himself h... GAIL HAMILTON Everything seems simpler from a distance. GAIL TSUKIYAMA Every person is responsible for all the good within the scope of his abilities, and for no more, and... GAIL HAMILTON Good teaching is one-fourth preparation and three-fourths pure theatre. GAIL GODWIN One is taught by experience to put a premium on those few people who can appreciate you for what you... GAIL GODWIN Fact: Girls who are having a good sex thing stay in New York. The rest want to spend their summer va... GAIL PARENT There is no more defiant denial of one man's ability to possess one woman exclusively than the prost... GAIL SHEEHY To be tested is good. The challenged life may be the best therapist. GAIL SHEEHY We hear the haunting presentiment of a dutiful middle age in the current reluctance of young people ... GAIL SHEEHY When men reach their sixties and retire, they go to pieces. Women go right on cooking. GAIL SHEEHY Keep your dreams alive. Understand to achieve anything requires faith and belief in yourself, vision... GAIL DEVERS The best antidote I have found is to yearn for something. As long as you yearn, you can't congeal:... GAIL GODWIN Fact: Girls who are having a good sex thing stay in New York. The rest want to spend their summer ... GAIL PARENT Above all, be true to yourself, and if you cannot put your heart in it, take yourself out of it. GAIL DEVERS I never really drank coffee in college, but now I'm on my feet all day and out all night and can... GAIL SIMMONS In February 1991, I was rushed to the hospital in Los Angeles to have my feet amputated. Three years... GAIL DEVERS I love The Inn at Palmetto Bluff, an Auberge Property in Bluffton, South Carolina. It's a specta... GAIL SIMMONS Adapting to our Second Adulthood is not all about the money. It requires thinking about how to find ... GAIL SHEEHY Changes are not only possible and predictable, but to deny them is to be an accomplice to one's ... GAIL SHEEHY When I got to be a CEO, I said: 'Right. I'm now going to tackle gender inequality head-on. I... GAIL KELLY Patience is the secret to good food. GAIL SIMMONS I do think taking the 20s to take the most chances you can is important, because you're not goin... GAIL SHEEHY Eating a lot is an occupational hazard but it's a pretty great problem to have. I spend a lot of... GAIL SIMMONS In my memoir, I admit that I've been as fearful of success as of failure. In fact, when 'Pas... GAIL SHEEHY I will not compare myself with others, nor them with me. I will appreciate myself and others for wha... GAIL BLANKE There are two kinds of people. One kind, you can just tell by looking at them at what point they con... GAIL GODWIN If every day is an awakening, you will never grow old. You will just keep growing. GAIL SHEEHY