I did not see any way that I could possibly give birth to someone else and also give birth to myself. Far from feeling guilty, it was the first time that I had taken responsibility for my own life.
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Related I've never really understood attachment to a place for reasons of birth. That my mother happened... ALBERTO MANGUEL My giving birth was nothing when I think about all the people in Sri Lanka that have to give birth i... M.I.A. The more I give myself permission to live in the moment and enjoy it without feeling guilty or judgm... WAYNE DYER I'm hearing it from all the guys. I expect to. I deserve it. I would give myself grief. If someone e... CHASE UTLEY I am disappointed that my parents didn't give birth to a porn star RUFUS WAINWRIGHT Nothing is lost that we do not first see as lost. Visions born of fear give birth to our failing. TERRY BROOKS When I was pregnant, I wanted to take some time off from acting, but I still needed a creative outle... JOSIE BISSETT Since you think it my duty, Mr. Farebrother, I will tell you that I have too strong a feeling for Fr... GEORGE ELIOT The reason I was angry all the time was that Gloria Steinem and all those people, without reading my... CAMILLE PAGLIA Human beings are not born once and for all on the day their mothers give birth to them, but ... life... GABRIEL GARCíA MáRQUEZ ...human beings are not born once and for all on the day their mothers give birth to them, but...lif... GABRIEL GARCIA MARQUEZ I've been doing everything I could possibly do except for putting the pads on, ... 'I had to make my... TEDY BRUSCHI When I stopped seeing my mother through the eyes of a child, I saw the woman who helped me give birt... NANCY FRIDAY When I stopped seeing my mother with the eyes of a child, I saw the woman who helped me give birth t... NANCY FRIDAY If it was true that moss did not have roots, and maternal love could grow spontaneously as if from n... VANESSA DIFFENBAUGH There was a woman in Tunisia called Madame Pinot. She was a midwife and had helped in the birth of m... AZZEDINE ALAIA He allowed himself to be swayed by his conviction that human beings are not born once and for all on... 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CHRISTINE FEEHAN I see myself as having three families: my birth family, the family that raised me, and my Cree famil... BUFFY SAINTE-MARIE The only thing I knew was that I would give myself permission to imagine anything, and reverse engin... NATASHA TSAKOS But besides that I was of an unforgiving disposition from my birth, slow to take offense, slower to ... ROBERT LOUIS STEVENSON It took me a while to figure that out and to realize what a gift that I had been given. And when I f... NOLAN RYAN And also I didn't want my future to be just sitting in a room and be imprisoned in my four walls... MALALA YOUSAFZAI I was stressed and scared and I had to hurry to be someone, become something, do something. I was ru... CHARLOTTE ERIKSSON 'm so fortunate to have done what I love to do for so long, but the day I retired was one of the... CARL LEWIS I do not want to speak about overpopulation or birth control, but I think education is the way to gi... HARRI HOLKERI The bonds between people had to be a narcotic. You unwittingly became dependent all the while your h... WATARU WATARI But once, in his anger, Aidan had asked me whether I thought I had wasted my life, and I had told hi... JOHN BOYNE I was born and raised in Zambia in 1969. At the time of my birth, blacks were not issued birth certi... DAMBISA MOYO My own life was filled with so much love and joy that when depression struck, it was like a prison d... SUSAN POLIS SCHUTZ I don't know how much the pope and Gloria Steinem really agreed on. TOM RODGERS If I have one wish for my birthday, it is that 35 is the end of desperation and the beginning of acc... JESSI KLEIN Everything that I do in my life is geared towards my kids and their survival and giving them the bes... DWIGHT HENRY My mother desperately wanted children. She had a child that was stillborn - something I learned when... 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BRANDON PHILLIPS Someone said once that they'd never heard of a crime they couldn't imagine committing, and I realize... CATHERINE LACEY My hats did give me an identity. In fact, if I had a dollar for every time someone has seen me bareh... TOM LANDRY Where I am today... I still have my ups and downs, but I take it one day at a time and I just hope t... DEMI LOVATO I had a home birth because I really believe in the body's natural ability to give birth. The med... SARAH SHAHI From the moment of my birth, I lived with pain at the center of my life. My only purpose in life was... HARUKI MURAKAMI I am, you know, really fighting for myself and my life. And I think the message that I could give to... JENNIFER HOLLIDAY He was asking all these questions, wanting to know what the deformity was. I asked him why he needed... SUE BAILEY I've had a love of animals from birth. I love getting to know other species. We should all be aw... 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JANE AUSTEN When I found I had given birth to a human wreckage, to a child that was an imbecile, my heart was br... VICTORIA WOODHULL I guess I was actually sort of grateful that someone else was taking over my life. I mean, I'm obvio... JESSE ANDREWS if someone got to see the Beautiful itself, absolute, pure, unmixed, not polluted by human flesh or ... PLATO Feast of Dunstan, Archbishop of Canterbury, 988 I suddenly saw that all the time it was not I who... BEDE GRIFFITHS In the power of my newfound strength, I saw clearly—even though I’d been empowered to have my ol... ASPEN MATIS For my own part, without breach of truth or modesty, I may affirm that my life has been, on the whol... THOMAS DE QUINCEY I was hoping he (Dyer) would have taken responsibility for what he did, but that didn't happen. I ha... BRANDON SMALL
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