I am not only the person who wrote and sold a novel while raising a houseful of biological and foster children; I am also the person who wrote a horrific young adult novel that never sold and gave up on a foster child I couldn't handle - an experience that still haunts me.
Vanessa Diffenbaugh
Related I'd never written a novel before, and I wrote a novel, and that turned out OK. RAINBOW ROWELL My husband and I had five biological children but we also have been raising 23 foster children. MICHELE BACHMANN I want to make sure that any young person or anyone, really, who is looking up to me - who sees a gl... SAMIRA WILEY I like to open for a band as it brings on sort of a challenge and it makes things more interesting. ... KELLY JONES I am still bowled over by this great young adult novel by David Levithan called 'Every Day,'... JOHN GREEN I once tried to write a novel about revenge. It's the only book I didn't finish. I couldn... MAEVE BINCHY I had a writing professor at Brandeis who told me I'd never make it - and when I sold my first n... CAROLINE LEAVITT I've worked with homeless kids, kids in foster care, and I've never met a kid who couldn'... VANESSA DIFFENBAUGH I wrote a novel for my degree, and I'm very happy I didn't submit that to a publisher. I sym... DAVID EDDINGS My foray into young adult lit was by no means planned. I wrote the first 'Alfred Kropp' book... RICK YANCEY I sold my first short story while I was home on maternity leave, then began working on novels. Since... TESS GERRITSEN The way this whole novel thing came together was, I sold them one bill of goods and then didn't ... AHMET ZAPPA I wrote my first novel in eighth grade for a boy named Kenny on whom I had an unrequited crush and w... KATE CHRISTENSEN Newt Gingrich wrote a novel, and he's a short story. Bill Clinton wrote a biography, and he'... JAMES MCBRIDE I am a former newspaper reporter turned church secretary turned vampire novelist. I wrote my first c... MOLLY HARPER Going from a child actor to an adult actor is not an easy thing, and I was sort of lost in a no man&... C. THOMAS HOWELL I am not an academic who happens to have written a novel. I am a novelist who happens to be quite go... A. S. BYATT Who am I? I am that. Nothing can change that. Words, intellect and concepts can never reach that. It... AMIT RAY My interest in the theater led me to my first writing experience as an adult. My husband David wrote... GAIL CARSON LEVINE I'm honestly not the kind of person who wants to step up to a podium, test the microphone and be... ABBY WAMBACH I'm not the same person I was. I used to act dumb. It was an act. I am 26 years old, and that ac... PARIS HILTON In this life it is good to have the experience of raising a child from infant stage to adulthood,be ... DAVID ATTA (A.K.A DAVIED ATTLARS & MR DAIN) blackmagic on a person
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blackmagic on a pe... ASTRODOST If as an adult I have scolded and then silenced the child within me, I contend that I am neither an ... CRAIG D. LOUNSBROUGH People who don't know me, how will they know what I am really like? They will only see me on the... YUVRAJ SINGH In 2004, I wrote 'What We've Lost,' a book about the Bush administration. It sold only r... GRAYDON CARTER I don't sit under the tattoo gun unless I'm sold on it completely and it will define me as a... YELAWOLF I wrote a novel about Israelis who live their own lives on the slope of a volcano. Near a volcano on... AMOS OZ I wrote my novel 'Bitter Greens' as the creative component of a Doctorate of Creative Arts a... KATE FORSYTH I read all of the nonfiction that I could find on Chechnya, and all the while, I was searching for a... ANTHONY MARRA The way this whole novel thing came together was, I sold them one bill of goods and then didn't comm... AHMET ZAPPA I was never a knucklehead off the field. I was a person who abided by the rules and had been an upst... A.J. NICHOLSON I realized that day that blessings come in a variety of shapes, colors, and sizes. CRAIG GROESCHEL I'm a forthright person and I am ambitious and I do hope that I get to do more, interesting work... JESSICA CLARK I was really blessed with parents who never said I couldn't do anything. And now I reflect as an... OLESYA RULIN I am just a child who has never grown up. I still keep asking these 'how' and 'why' ... STEPHEN HAWKING I am often asked how it is that I am able to value people to such a deep degree. Apparently, I exhib... C. JOYBELL C. I suppose I started writing seriously at 16 years old. I thought I wrote a novel at 16 and sent it t... ERNEST GAINES I haven't collected memorabilia. I am not a person who lives in the past. YVONNE CRAIG I can't relate to people who treat me as a 'famous person.' I only like to hang around w... JUDY BLUME You are the only one who has understood even a whisper of me, and I will tell you that I am the only... JONATHAN SAFRAN FOER I've come to think of Dunnett as the literary equivalent of the Velvet Underground; Not many peo... ALAYA DAWN JOHNSON I wrote 'Yellow Submarine' for the Beatles. I wrote the screenplay for 'The Games,' ... ERICH SEGAL I wrote my first novel, 'Deadline,' in 1994 as an experiment. RANDY ALCORN I was raised in a group home for 14 years, so I was a beneficiary of philanthropy. I didn't have... DARELL HAMMOND A person of value have skill, a vision & a deep desire to achieve what they dream for. Happiness com... DR ANIL KUMAR SINHA Here's a guy who tried to peddle a novel and someone came and said, 'Don't make it a novel, make it ... RICHARD COHEN I wrote for years before I was ever published, and I don't think I could ever stop. That said, I... JAMES ROLLINS I am criticizing a culture that has sold the big lie that 'Mom doesn't matter.' MIKE PENCE When I first began to write fiction, I didn't think I was a comic writer; I thought I was a seri... ANTHONY BURGESS You're still lovely," Mor said a bit gently. Elain offered a half smile. "I suppose that war m... SARAH J. MAAS Someone once wrote that a novel should deliver a series of small astonishments. I get the same thing... E. LOCKHART A novel is a great act of passion and intellect, carpentry and largess. From the very beginning, I w... PAT CONROY In the first year, 1988, I wrote and sold 3 novels. STEPHEN R. GEORGE I'd love to be an artist that's multifaceted. At the moment, I am not. But wouldn't that... ANNE HATHAWAY I am a novelist. I traffic in subtleties, and my goal in writing a novel is to leave the reader not ... TEJU COLE I don't know why people feel that I am snooty. I am not a person who has ever given an interview... KAREENA KAPOOR KHAN When I was growing up, my parents took in foster children. From a young age, I learned that there ar... MICHELLE MONAGHAN Many people look at me and think they know me but they don't at all. This is the real me. I am a... CRISTIANO RONALDO Because never in my entire childhood did I feel like a child. I felt like a person all along--the sa... ORSON SCOTT CARD I wrote my second novel, 'A Little Life,' in what I still think of as a fever dream: For 18 ... HANYA YANAGIHARA I am human like everyone else. I am aware that there are people who look up to me. When mistakes are... VANESSA HUDGENS You are the ultimate freedom, peace and bliss - free from the trace of desire, fear and doubts. AMIT RAY When I was very little, four or five, I did comic strip drawings, so my first novel had no words. I ... JOYCE CAROL OATES When I wrote my first serious novel, 'Interior', I was inspired by a 1978 book of Updike'... JUSTIN CARTWRIGHT I can count on one hand the number of people who wrote me a thank you letter after having an intervi... KATE REARDON Anyone who knows me knows that I'm way more of a joker than I am a serious person. QUEEN LATIFAH When a lot of voices, make up a noise, the man who is silent represents a voice. APURVA GAGLANI I am pretty fearless, and you know why? Because I don't handle fear very well; I'm not a goo... STEVIE NICKS I don't speak out because I am an actor nor will I keep silent because I am an actor. I respect ... THEODORE BIKEL I was kind of a misfit, actually. When you're young, you want to be like everybody else, and I w... HOWIE MANDEL I hope to have a career like Jodie Foster, going from child to adult actress. EVAN RACHEL WOOD I am not a people person. It's not that I am shy, but I am more comfortable in an atmosphere of ... BETHANY JOY LENZ I am the flower child who will not wilt. You couldn't have asked for anything more. ANNIE GOLDEN I could not bear to think that I wrote a five-hundred page novel just because I needed to love my fa... PAT CONROY I wrote the first draft of my first novel at Michigan, and then I wrote the first draft of 'Salv... JESMYN WARD Ignorance breeds fear and hatred. KRISTIN CAST It was a strike against me that I didn't wear baggy jeans and jerseys and that I never hustled, ... KANYE WEST Madly, futilely, I wrote novel after novel, eight in all, that failed to find a publisher. I persist... WILLIAM NICHOLSON It was a sad process for me to become a mom, and a long process. I felt so embarrassed that I couldn... NIA VARDALOS Unlike others who have been caught swearing on camera, I apologised immediately. And yet I am the on... WAYNE ROONEY I am obsessive always, even as a child. On one side is this strict orthodox religion, on the other i... MARINA ABRAMOVIC Am I still a hero if the only person I save is myself? Am I still a villain if the only pe... B. DAMANI People expect comedy from me but I am not just a stand-up comedian anymore. I act on stage, host ... KAPIL SHARMA The issue isn't whether he loved you, it's how much. Too much. Love can be poison SARAH J. MAAS I am broken and healing, but every piece of my heart belong to you. SARAH J. MAAS He thinks he'll be remembered as the villain in the story. But I forgot to tell him that the villain... SARAH J. MAAS Night gathers, and now my watch begins. It shall not end until my death. I shall take no wife, hold ... GEORGE R.R. MARTIN Hodor," said Hodor. GEORGE R.R. MARTIN You do what you love, what you need SARAH J. MAAS I turned. Rhysand leaned against the archway into the sitting room, arms crossed, wings nowhere... SARAH J. MAAS Child actors going on to become adult actors never really works, apart from a few. Jodie Foster was ... MARK LESTER I am really a loner after all; I am really not a social person. Because of my job, people think I am... TOM FORD I do not think that I am a person who cannot be trusted. BELA KUN I am also an author. Please check out my novel, A Life Worth Dreaming About. NICHOLAS DETTMANN I am not a bad person," he said. "I am good person who has lived un a bad time. JONATHAN SAFRAN FOER During times of sour or bad relationship a good person will always exhibit a pleasant character. DAVID ATTA (A.K.A DAVIED ATTLARS & MR DAIN) People themselves makes a lots of mistakes and still loves himself,
and they never forget a single m... OM BENIWAL Sometimes trying to know someone so well is not always good. UZOMA NNADI I think Melbourne is by far and away the most interesting place in Australia, and I thought if I eve... PETER TEMPLE
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VANESSA KERRY It wasn't until two or three years ago that I actually learned that in the end he actually did k... VANESSA KERRY I think my dad is this great, wonderful... man with a lot of integrity, who is fighting for things h... VANESSA KERRY There has to be room for people to make mistakes and lead their own lives. VANESSA KERRY And I think we created something incredible as a Democratic group, as a platform, as an effort to ma... VANESSA KERRY You're blinded by lights and you see all these people who come out, and it's exciting. It... VANESSA KERRY It was definitely a part of our life. I mean, my mom had both her brothers and her fiancee in Vietna... VANESSA KERRY I think there is a generation gap. I personally look forward to, as our generation becomes the leade... VANESSA KERRY But one of the things I learned is that when you fight for something you believe in and you tell the... VANESSA KERRY I was very close to my mother, and her death, which left a gaping hole in my life, has been very dif... VANESSA KERRY The dinner table is a lively debate, and everybody weighs in in a different way. I like that, though... VANESSA KERRY My advice to kids is give it your all! Give it 110 percent and don't give up! VANESSA HUDGENS I like someone who's not afraid to be a kid! VANESSA HUDGENS I had my first real kiss at Magic Mountain on a park bench. Not the most romantic thing ever. VANESSA HUDGENS It's important to have people around who love themselves, are true to themselves, who have their... VANESSA HUDGENS If people don't like me for whatever I do, for being me, then that's too bad. I don't wa... VANESSA HUDGENS I want to try doing sportier things, kite surfing and paddle surfing - I think it would give me that... VANESSA HUDGENS Long-distance relationships are hard no matter what. When you don't have face-to-face time, it... VANESSA HUDGENS I try not to read the blogs or what people say about me. Because that's what brings everybody do... VANESSA HUDGENS You have a choice whether you want to be happy or not. I choose to be happy. VANESSA HUDGENS Confidence is key. Sometimes, you need to look like you're confident even when you're not. VANESSA HUDGENS I don't go long without eating. I never starve myself: I grab a healthy snack. VANESSA HUDGENS I like friends who are honest and loyal. They also shouldn't be afraid to be a kid. I like havin... VANESSA HUDGENS This is going to sound really funny. I have a poster of Zac Efron on my wall! I think every girl has... VANESSA HUDGENS Touring is tough. You're almost in a haze because you don't really know where you are half t... VANESSA HUDGENS I just love expanding my horizons and growing as an artist. The only way you get to do that is by do... VANESSA HUDGENS I love funky styles. Not preppy or rock, just funky! VANESSA HUDGENS I may have had a crush on Zac, but we are like brother and sister, so nothing would ever happen. VANESSA HUDGENS Do not just look at your boyfriend as just a boyfriend. Look at him as a friend, too. VANESSA HUDGENS I'd like to go out with friends, but I train twice a day, then I go to school, and at night I go... VANESSA FERRARI I'd say I'm quite powerful so I'm not afraid of jumps or acrobatic elements. The hardest... VANESSA FERRARI The Ferrari is a beautiful car. It's great. VANESSA FERRARI New York's my home. Born and raised. I'm a New Yorker to the bone. VANESSA FERLITO You have to really love women in order to really just have a respect for women and love them. No man... VANESSA FERLITO Kurt Russell is so dreamy. Plus, he's great to work with, really respectful. VANESSA FERLITO Quentin Tarantino is a genius. I want to do every single film with him. VANESSA FERLITO I do yoga; I'm pretty dedicated. VANESSA FERLITO I have to be honest - I don't love guns. 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