Hope is not about proving anything. It's about choosing to believe this one thing, that love is bigger than any grim, bleak shit anyone can throw at us.
Anne Lamott
Related That is the worst thing about despair: it is not constant, any more than love is. AMANDA CRAIG It is not about proving anything to the world. It is all about proving your capabilities to yo... MANOJ ARORA One thing which I know about this world of glamour is that it is better to have people talking about... SONAKSHI SINHA The hardest thing about any political campaign is how to win without proving that you are unworthy o... ADLAI E. STEVENSON The hardest thing about any political campaign is how to win without proving that you are unworthy o... ADLAI E. STEVENSON JR. The first thing anyone can do, about any issue, is get informed. ADORA SVITAK One thing about Charlie is that he's been proving people wrong all year long. When Charlie puts his ... TRAVIS REINSCH It is not about money. It is about a player thinking he is bigger than this club. FREDDY SHEPHERD A kiss is the easiest thing to throw at someone because its weight is love. MATSHONA DHLIWAYO The hardest thing to believe about The Fan is not that Robert De Niro is stalking somebody again but... BERNIE LINCICOME If there's one thing I believe, its that I don't know anything and anything can happen AMY LEE To not have any hope is where things start to get really bleak. Things are possible. The impossible ... SARAH PAULSON Its much more easier to know just one thing about everything in this universe than to know everythin... OJAS VISHWAKARMA Having something to fight for will make us stronger than anything they can throw at us. HEATHER ANASTASIU I'm not an old, experienced hand at politics. But I am now seasoned enough to have learned that the ... ADLAI STEVENSON I'm not an old, experienced hand at politics. But I am now seasoned enough to have learned that the ... ADLAI E. STEVENSON But I can say one thing -- I will not say a negative word about anyone on this platform. BOB RAE Everyone got a follower, how good or bad is all this shit, it's another topic… JUst leave it for l... DEYTH BANGER All power is within you; you can do anything and everything. Believe in that, do not believe that yo... SWAMI VIVEKANANDA God gives me hope that there is something greater than us, something better and bigger than the here... MATTIE STEPANEK I'm not an old, experienced hand at politics. But I am now seasoned enough to have learned that ... ADLAI E. STEVENSON I think the best thing I can say about it - and I think the best thing you can say about anything, r... GAEL GARCIA BERNAL He knows me better than anyone ever has. Than anyone ever will again. I would have stopped it if I c... AMY ENGEL It's not even a point of discussion. I don't believe this is anything that could involve any decisio... JOE GLASS Well, I just don’t want you to think that this piece of shit is anything other than a pathetic, hu... JHONEN VáSQUEZ Anything that can give us a clue about survival is important. Like many other things of this kind, w... DR. NORMAN EDELMAN Nothing is impossible. With the right attitude, you can do anything you want. It's all about choosin... MINNIE DRIVER This is America. Anyone is free to protest about anything they want. NIKKI HALEY There is no reason to believe at this juncture that this is anything other than a manifestation of a... LARRY BUSH The thing is, any time anyone invades anyone on stage, the invader always looks really bad no matter... CALVIN HARRIS This medium is far bigger than we expected, and it is clear to us that many retailers and marketers ... BHAWANI SINGH It has always been fairly safe to talk about God; it is when we start to talk about men that the tro... WILLIAM BARCLAY Families are about love, giving, and acceptance. Business is about accountability, performance, and ... BERNARD KLISKA Later Ginika said, “You could have just said Ngozi is your tribal name and Ifemelu is your jungle ... CHIMAMANDA NGOZI ADICHIE The only way love can last a lifetime is if it's unconditional. The truth is this: love is not deter... STEPHEN KENDRICK "Love is blind" Everyone knows but sometimes love see so beautiful thing that no eye can imagine.The... TANJIR RASHID SORON MD There is only one thing in life worse than being talked about, and that is not being talked about. OSCAR WILDE He's obviously coming off an injury that's prevented him from doing anything in a live game. He migh... ADAM EATON Love is cheering and sharing and compassion and giving and receiving. Love is an action thing more t... ZIGGY MARLEY I cannot stress often enough that what science is all about is not proving things to be true but pro... LAWRENCE M. KRAUSS There is only one thing in the world worse than being talked about, and that is not being talked abo... OSCAR WILDE There is only one thing in the world worse than being talked
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In choosing joy you get to choo... ROGER WYER the only thing that can make your situation hopless, is an unwillingess to do anything and move in a... CONOR SMITH Even if we don't believe in church or God, we still believe in things that are bigger than ourse... RACHEL JOYCE It is not easy to learn much about love, but one thing I discovered, that Lady Harleigh taught me: i... THOMAS TRYON Any nation that thinks more of its ease and comfort than its freedom will soon lose its freedom; and... W. SOMERSET MAUGHAM The thing about influence is that any composer worth anything will give you the same names. HARRISON BIRTWISTLE It sounds so clich to say this, but all we have to do is take one game at a time. We can't worry abo... JASON MICHAELS There is nothing like making love to somebody you give a shit about. JIM CARREY Rodney King was about police abuse, O.J. was about police incompetence, and Rampart is about police ... LAURIE LEVENSON Rodney King was about police abuse, O.J. was about police incompetence, and Rampart is about police ... LAURIE LEVENSON I think this storm is bigger than anything we have dealt with before. This is not a minor problem. KATHLEEN BLANCO Forgive me, I’m being a bit crude and rude about this, but I can’t make the reality prettier tha... HENDRIK GROEN If I'm not thinking about one shit storm, I have to think about another. KAREN M. MCMANUS Love is fragile. And we're not always its best caretakers. We just muddle through and do the best we... NICHOLAS SPARKS It's one thing to support the Wright Amendment. It's another thing to support shutting down your hom... SAM JOHNSON I don't care about champagne backstage or anything else - the one thing I need to specify is that I ... SIOUXSIE SIOUX I believe very much that the most damning thing you can say about Muslims is that you're afraid ... PENN JILLETTE When our lips parted, he sighed. “I love those eyes, angel. When they look at me, I feel like anyt... BIJOU HUNTER Talking about income inequality, even if you're not on the Forbes 400 list, can make us feel unc... CHRYSTIA FREELAND Changing one thing for the better is worth more than proving a thousand things are wrong. UNKNOWN This love of which I speak is slow to lose patience - it looks for a way of being constructive. ELISABETH ELLIOT The tombstone is about the only thing that can stand upright and lie on its face at the same time. MARY WILSON LITTLE The good thing about this is there are no rules. As long as we listen to our viewers, we can try jus... ANTHONY MARSHALL Only by having a sense of history's trajectory (even if one does not believe in Parousia) can one lo... UMBERTO ECO There is one thing we can do better than anyone else: we can be ourselves. WILLIAM ARTHUR WARD Sometimes you see how humanity can rise above any kind of cultural ills and hate that a person's... VIOLA DAVIS (Love is the puzzle that) can’t be solved. Catlike, it follows no rules but its own, and only it k... CHRIS DEE Your love, not your worry, is the most valuable thing any of us can give our children. JASON E. ROYLE The funny thing about mental hospitals is that they strip away any remaining reason you have to live... EMILIE AUTUMN One great thing about growing old is that nothing is going to lead to anything. Everything is of the... JOSEPH CAMPBELL This is a special group. This is not about me. It's about this team; it's about this ownership; it's... BILL COWHER We fought like heck for every player and every advantage, but we knew we were part of something bigg... PAT GILLICK About the most originality that any writer can hope to achieve honestly is to steal with good judgme... JOSH BILLINGS This is bigger than the three of us. We do not want to blow this ... bailing out is not an option. EDNA SMITH The biggest thing I can say about Bonny is that he is humble. He is not boastful at all. He never ha... KELLY MULCAHY Love is very fragile, we are not always its best caretakers, we just muddle through and do the best ... OLASOT To be loved but not known is comforting but superficial. To be known and not loved is our greatest f... TIMOTHY J. KELLER They have lied to us. They can't keep us from dying, so They lie to us about death. A cooperative st... THOMAS PYNCHON Fuck everyone's apologies. I'm sick of hearing them. No one is sorry about anything. None of us care... JASON MYERS Any time a new process comes into the market, there is always a pioneer. In this case, it's us, ... ... CHUCK VIANE I am bigger than anything that can happen to me. CHARLES F. LUMMIS I am bigger than anything that can happen to me. CHARLES FLETCHER LUMMIS
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ANNE LAMOTT We can see Spirit made visible when people are kind to one another, especially when it's a really bu... ANNE LAMOTT Faith includes noticing the mess, the emptiness and discomfort, and letting it be there until some l... ANNE LAMOTT Her purse was a weight, ballast; it tethered her to the earth as her mind floated away. ANNE LAMOTT ... one of the immutable laws of being human is that the people who show up are the right people. [p... ANNE LAMOTT But you don't always get what you want;,you get what you get ANNE LAMOTT What you're looking for is already inside you. You've heard this before, but the holy thing inside y... ANNE LAMOTT If you haven't already, you will lose someone you can't live without, and your heart will be badly b... ANNE LAMOTT ... everyone has come to understand that unconditional love is a reality, but with as shelf life of ... ANNE LAMOTT When we did art with the kids, the demons would lie down. ANNE LAMOTT Age has given me what I was looking for my entire life - it has given me me . It has provide... ANNE LAMOTT You want to protect your child from pain, and what you get instead is life, and grace; and though th... ANNE LAMOTT Rule 1: When all else fails, follow instructions. And Rule 2: Don't be an asshole. ANNE LAMOTT Rest and laughter are the most spiritual and subversive acts of all. Laugh, rest, slow down. ANNE LAMOTT I'm here to be me, which is taking a great deal longer than I had hoped. ANNE LAMOTT This is one thing they forget to mention in most child-rearing books, that at times you will just lo... ANNE LAMOTT Certainty is missing the point entirely. ANNE LAMOTT Help" is a prayer that is always answered. It doesn't matter how you pray--with your head bowed in s... ANNE LAMOTT Forgiveness means it finally becomes unimportant that you hit back. You're done. It doesn't necessar... ANNE LAMOTT A good marriage is where both people feel like they're getting the better end of the deal. ANNE LAMOTT Underneath all things means that beneath the floorboards, in the depths, in the spaces between the p... ANNE LAMOTT These are the words I want on my gravestone: that I was a helper, and that I danced." ANNE LAMOTT I still encourage anyone who feels at all compelled to write to do so. I just try to warn people who... ANNE LAMOTT But how?" my students ask. "How do you actually do it?" You sit down, I say. You try to sit do... ANNE LAMOTT I do not understand the mystery of grace -- only that it meets us where we are and does not leave us... ANNE LAMOTT Your problem is how you are going to spend this one odd and precious life you have been issued. Whet... ANNE LAMOTT I got a lot of things that society had promised would make me whole and fulfilled - all the things t... ANNE LAMOTT رفض ما دون الكمال ، ينطوي على كثير من الظلم والعداء للإ�... ANNE LAMOTT I didn't write about my mother much in the third year after she died. I was still trying to get ... ANNE LAMOTT I like the desert for short periods of time, from inside a car, with the windows rolled up, and the ... ANNE LAMOTT When I was a kid, our family used to watch 'Bonanza.' I really liked having a Sunday night T... ANNE LAMOTT I used to love to untangle chains when I was a child. I had thin, busy fingers, and I never gave up.... ANNE LAMOTT A good marriage is supposed to be one where each spouse secretly thinks he or she got the better dea... ANNE LAMOTT See how the fearful chandelier Trembles above you Each time you open your mouth To sing. Sing. —DO... ANNE LAMOTT After a while the middle-aged person who lives in her head begins to talk to her soul, the kid. ANNE LAMOTT Perfectionism means that you try not to leave so much mess to clean up. But clutter and mess show us... ANNE LAMOTT