He's not remorseful,

My client has to live with the fact that this occurred, and he is remorseful and apologetic and he's not happy that it did happen.

He was remorseful of what he did.

He's feeling very remorseful,

I am much chastened and profoundly remorseful.

I don't have the sense she's remorseful, because I don't have a sense she knows what she's supposed to remorseful about. She's in shock, absolute shock.