He hasn?t shown any grief. His family has a place to stay, so we?re all right about that.

Grief is a curious thing, when it happens unexpectedly. It is a Band-aid being ripped away, taking the top layer off a family. And the underbelly of a household is never pretty, ours no exception.

As for the family members of victims, slap-on-the-wrist sentences compound the grief process.

Her grief still burdened her, and she knew she would bear it the rest of her days.

obviously experiencing a lot of grief right now.

There is no right way or wrong way for grief. This is something we'll never get over.