Extroverts want us to have fun, because they assume we want what they want. And sometimes we do. But “fun†itself is a “bright†word, the kind of word that comes with flashing lights and an exclamation point! One of Merriam-Webster’s definitions of “fun†is “violent or excited activity or argument.†The very word makes me want to sit in a dimly lit room with lots of pillows—by myself.