Extra-marital affairs may sometimes mean,"let me engage in this extra-curriculum/activity just to support my inactive & boring marriage.

Forget about religion rhetoric,human's flesh is a sex zone,if the sex at home is nothing to write home about,then outside sex may be a tempting ground.

Psychologically speaking,some flesh are not conducive for marital sex,the more familiar they are with their spouses,the lower their sex drives becomes.

Complaints about tiredness should never stand in the way of sex,if sex is enjoyed in the first place.

Never resume unprotected conjugal activities with your spouse whom you know Is a careless sex addict,if you have been apart for a while due to official or social engagements without first conducting medical tests.

If married & your spouse hasn't bought into your giant ambitions,then better rein in your ambitions,if you still desire your marriage.