Drehy,†Kaladin said, “you are literally courting a man.†“So?†Drehy said. “Yeah, what are you saying, Kal?†Skar snapped. “Nothing! I just thought Drehy might empathize….†“That’s hardly fair,†Drehy said. “Yeah,†Lopen added. “Drehy likes other guys. That’s like … he wants to be even less around women than the rest of us. It’s the opposite of feminine. He is you could say extra manly.