dont let your abuser win ,,,, brake the silence they have no right to get away with it xx

why should we feel ashamed of what has happend ,,,, we didnt ask for it ,,, are abuser forced it upon us ,,, we dont have to suffer in silence make a change for yourselve by making your abuser reconisable to everyone elsee....

Forgiveness can be very hard, but not impossible....each victim/survivor in their own way and time can forgive, and the forgiveness is really more for the victim/survivor that it is for the abuser.

Not only do I believe children can be reliable in sexual abuse cases, I believe the vast majority of them are reliable in those cases.
Nightline: When to believe a child's word (1996)

Incest is almost always a devastating experience for the victim.

Who said 'please' that made you hate the word so much?"
Andrew gazed at him in silence for a minute. "I did.