ANY RELATIONSHIP (family, friends, lovers, etc) ............ takes two to "tend to it" if you don't weed it, water it, contribute to it and at least throw a little manure towards it every once in a while, it WILL NOT GROW... leave it to one person to do all of the work and they will "tend elsewhere" where there is another one willing to tend with them.
— Anjie Henley
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