Do nothing, and nothing happens. Life is about decisions. You either make them or they're made for you, but you can't avoid them.

Being single means getting used to your own company and not inventing excuses to keep people around you, None of which makes me feel any less bereft. The latest revelation: you have to relearn being your own again!

University's like this little world, a bubble of time separate from everything before and everything after.

It's pathetic, I knew I did from that first moment we met. It was...not love at first sight exactly, but - familiarity. Like: oh, hello, it's you. It's going to be you. Game over."
-Ben

any decisions you make will always be followed by the one you could've made

If we actually thought about every decision we made, we'd be paralyzed ... You have to decide which decisions you're actually going to make, and then you have to let the rest of them go.