Do not whine... Do not complain. Work harder. Spend more time alone.

We can't complain and whine about where we're at. We've got to go forward.

If you have time to whine and complain about something then you have the time to do something about it.

The shock of it was that this time, she had a lot of strength, ... Her husband and I assumed she'd overcome it.

I'm not sure I would have anyway, ... If I had been writing it at the time she died, that would have become part of it. It was about a specific period of going crazy and getting over it.

Realize that if you have time to whine and complain about something then you have the time to do something about it.