Couples in their 30s are having trouble having kids. And you just kind of extrapolate that and say, 'What if it happened to everybody? What kind of society would it be like if all of a sudden we knew that this was the end of the line - we couldn't have kids?'

You either like something, or you don't; you won't change your opinion because somebody explains why you should like it.

For years I played the what-if game. Maybe you're acquainted with this pastime. The rules are simple:

Rule #1: You're only allowed to think of worst-case scenarios.

Rule #2: You're never allowed to win this game. You can only lose.

Rule #3: The more you play, the greater your losses.

If you say you're fat, all of a sudden people like you!

You'll never get anywhere if you go about what-iffing like that.

Having positivity in your life and a kind, forgiving heart allows you the strength to not hold anything back, because anything you say really does come from a good place.