But with my mom it was different because I couldn't be my professional self. I had to be me - a daughter. I had to be there emotionally and I was crying, just like everybody else.

Having a strong will and desire is half the battle and probably the bigger half.

We see younger patients now, especially with cancer. At one time our average cancer patients were probably over 60 but now there are many more in their 40s, partly because we are identifying earlier. We are better educated and that is helping to drive down death rates. And with advancements we are catching it earlier.

This process of self-censorship is ubiquitous and that those who do it believe that they are doing the right thing. That they call it "sensitivity" and "fairness" review without realizing that they are censoring to placate pressure groups, or in anticipation of protests.

Yes, limits can be self-imposed. But, as regards space, especially, they're starting to dwindle. It can be the same way for people.

You're always with yourself, so you might as well enjoy the company.