Beware of perpetrators in disguise... Some people set fires wherever they go, and have mastered the art of playing the burn victim.

Your complaints, your drama, your victim mentality, your whining, your blaming, and all of your excuses have NEVER gotten you even a single step closer to your goals or dreams. Let go of your nonsense. Let go of the delusion that you DESERVE better and go EARN it! Today is a new day!

There are times in my life when I have been medicine for some while poison for others. I used to think I was a victim of my story until I realized the truth; that I am the creator of my story. I choose what type of person I will be and what type of impact I will leave on others. I will never choose the destructive path of self and outward victimization again.

There are times in my life when I have been medicine for some while poison for others. I used to think I was a victim of my story until I realized the truth that I am the creator of my story. I choose what type of person I will be and what type of impact I will leave on others. I will never choose the destructive path of self and outward victimization again.

They were so thrilled when I said I’m a virgin,” I blurt out. “I’m so fucking stupid.”
I start crying again, and Alex hands me a napkin. “You’re not stupid,” she says. “You simply don’t assume people mean you harm.”
“Yeah, well.” I blow my nose loudly. “Last night that equaled being stupid.”
“No, it means you’re normal,” Alex says.

I am not a victim. No matter what I have been through, I'm still here. I have a history of victory.