Be your self & inculcate confidence, determination, strength of character and courage. Traits like being decisive and being a good problem solver are also essential. But one very important characteristic of self being is that makes earn respect and loyalty from their followers is humility.

Be master of your own thought which drives strength, not slave of emotion which makes you malleable to break at any point.

Be yourself .Be courageous & bold.Strive to make every moment beautiful to make your day worth meaningful.

Identify your bad habits, or negative aspects of your personality, and resolve them.

You are the best person to know the best way to achieve your dreams. Although people will always have a say about what you do, & they will come out with the suggestions. It is your choice whether you will accept them or not. It is okay to listen to them, but you should be smart enough to decipher which suggestions are worth following and which ones are mere distractions from what you should really be doing.

Never allow yourself to be a playful object for others. Never let yourself be satisfied on less what you actually deserve. When someone tries to make you or feel you low make yourself confident & strong enough to overcome the onslaught inflicted on you.You have the choice to create the life your heart is yearning to live.