All you see is the survival rates. If they're born at 28 weeks, 95 percent survive, what's the problem? You don't realize what the survival is, how sick they are.

You had to go from he's dying in your arms to hoping that she's not dying next. Because that's what they were telling us.

Even though [doctors] say they talk about the dangers of pregnancy, it never registers what they're saying. What they were saying wasn't getting through. I never thought I'd have one of my babies die.

The ability to delude yourself may be an important survival tool.

Our ability to delude ourselves may be an important survival tool.

Don't let the numbers make you think there isn't a problem. When underage kids drink, there rarely is a good outcome.