A full lifer doesn't commit to anyone until they've committed to her

Fears and expectations that date back to earlier experiences of dependency, but that didn't arise during courtship or dating, are activated as commitment to the relationship increases. As a result, partners start to anticipate the worst, not the best from their relationship.

It's a difficult game but if we can show the same attitude and commitment as we show on the training pitch then I don't fear Walsall.

I'm dating a woman now who, evidently, is unaware of it.

After one my breakups, my former girlfriend said we have misunderstandings. We never had. It's just that I was living for the future while she was living for the tomorrow. I couldn't wait for someone unwilling to grow up and able to keep only short term promises.

Chris's commitment and attitude in gaining success for Gloucestershire Tourism is inspiring.